tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-89401742152172025022024-03-05T09:24:22.193-08:00NAC愛的小宇宙-親子故事藝術療癒理解孩子行為問題背後,真正需要被看見的是什麼。在孩子的成長路上,我們都一樣不斷地學習與更正如何當父母,並在一次又一次的挫敗經驗裡獲得深刻的體悟和感動。<br>希望孩子的每一天都是溫暖的晴天,即便偶爾也會遇上暗灰的雲霧也能溫柔地推揉散去,用柔軟的心化成每一個溫暖擁抱。<br>讓孩子帶著愛飛往世界的每一個角落,去探索去學習即使困難重重也學著如何克服並累積經驗,而我們就是那暖暖的陽光為孩子照耀著,不論喜怒哀樂~永遠陪伴著!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger85125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-63620453137104094702023-09-12T18:49:00.003-07:002023-09-12T18:49:21.999-07:00接受有時也會有無可避免的時候,向自己傳遞意願,然後慢慢的往前<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhABlhvQanS8S12PxzWTYRYAYHXY7HWBgRrBDaDtBqjGX0_RxTKxvCFnvb-9eeNUqM0aWOx4ZwQzsFfMeM5lEEz1zZsUbg2yXueMts1pqvGOqHPqGoD6NYkI4jxPsduR12K2P3PCNy2VhXJmbQBeRqJBrR13m1Semutmu_9JDk_ZPGgsmcmLGHhw5wOb6Y/s2880/SelfieCity_20230913082348_org.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2880" data-original-width="1694" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhABlhvQanS8S12PxzWTYRYAYHXY7HWBgRrBDaDtBqjGX0_RxTKxvCFnvb-9eeNUqM0aWOx4ZwQzsFfMeM5lEEz1zZsUbg2yXueMts1pqvGOqHPqGoD6NYkI4jxPsduR12K2P3PCNy2VhXJmbQBeRqJBrR13m1Semutmu_9JDk_ZPGgsmcmLGHhw5wOb6Y/w376-h640/SelfieCity_20230913082348_org.jpg" width="376" /></a></div><br /> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">不論是什麼,最後都會磨損消耗,就如同生命。 </span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">若要論無形的話,可能就是說的是那些外在的物質和名利吧! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">植物,最容易被我們感受到「凋零」和「重生」,但即使重生了,也不會和從前一模一樣了。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">沒有什麼人事物是完美無瑕的,尤其是當我們近距離觀察時,不論是用哪一種視角去看,結果都是一樣的。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">過去的它會存在,也會回頭深深的凝望著你;而未來嘛,就是不斷的發生,就像現在一樣。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">好久沒有讓自己與泥的創作現身,也不是刻意,因為我每天幾乎都會看著自己不同時期的作品,我想那也反應著當時期的心境吧! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這是一年多前的作品。我創作了一匹很美麗的馬,她有著柔軟的身體,延著弧狀而下,但強而有力的雙翅卻更耀眼,似乎是預備著要做些什麼,或者也沒有要做些什麼。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0FhW2FY_WQypZxL-RxYK73y2uHkKgqORzzc7rexY4AR9agp3ou181BLEn9-zqWjrDVB-GelKT1g5i6i1HyiVsESIEUmCt2zdn_TcyFzB9EeOUVMa7FVp_3Efgol5TrvBhO50eLOEGR6_u-uff4telDvD7VJaMJKaY1oj-IcYSdpt3IxQfsIn9hWDvJl4/s2880/SelfieCity_20230913090017_org.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2880" data-original-width="1297" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi0FhW2FY_WQypZxL-RxYK73y2uHkKgqORzzc7rexY4AR9agp3ou181BLEn9-zqWjrDVB-GelKT1g5i6i1HyiVsESIEUmCt2zdn_TcyFzB9EeOUVMa7FVp_3Efgol5TrvBhO50eLOEGR6_u-uff4telDvD7VJaMJKaY1oj-IcYSdpt3IxQfsIn9hWDvJl4/w288-h640/SelfieCity_20230913090017_org.jpg" width="288" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">至於到底是什麼,是一種充滿詩意或神秘的特別時刻。我覺得作品本身就是這樣,沒有固著的形象,但她們的姿態總是迷人。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">她的身旁有一隻小匹的馬,看起來像是依偎著,但其實這匹小馬是獨自站著的。她會不會飛,在目前與未來都不明確,我們或許可以期待。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">泥與我之間,不用言語,也不用計劃。用薄弱的,或是某個瞬間的想法,一起用雙手揉合出來的。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: var(--gray-2); font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit;"><b><i>我不喜歡她們有任何的確定性,因為感覺被囚禁了什麼,她們是一道光芒。一道美麗的光芒。</i></b></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%BE%AE%E5%89%B5%E4%BD%9C?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZWHLdvQmDD7YWAMZWv274vbp_TlPTHU5i5taeDF58HuI1JKwKDWmAlY-118Jzmo1g1FGe-gemuAnWMJ_gNbEF7mMzuQPE5rbO7wFYE7n4ud764APtTNBHJHk6TKEkhOrNMi_UFx4BgEX30mDram6k7AXHK1qi3yvPIMjcdqs93g2WySCx3771ZpDkpOtxPGl2w&__tn__=*NK-R" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">#微創作</span></a></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我不是藝術家,只是愛玩泥巴的人,也鼓起很大勇氣才敢拿出來給你們看的小女子。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> 今早的《微晨時光》大家參與了嗎?有的人請舉手,讓我大大的向你道謝!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-54844148030482558052023-09-12T17:11:00.004-07:002023-09-12T17:11:22.965-07:00在人生旅程中總是走得最踏實的就是時間,不論發生什麼事,時間依舊往前走<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgquU8Nim6Na4ULpPjmOOIqgqxlZU4edjlBZZrUqPq9qLLklgws63wA1NOyDdtSpCXuy5pRDPf_-D5YWp6aOVeLSlFHzYS65vwJ4rzD0i_0lVyvVYAPzHlrkVrjQ-EUybcAJVoz9eSho4PdtFhO3BKGid42b0q5ThVhH-NxKQ5sZQtaYiX_juu_Oh7VRd8/s5184/pexels-pixabay-236164.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3456" data-original-width="5184" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgquU8Nim6Na4ULpPjmOOIqgqxlZU4edjlBZZrUqPq9qLLklgws63wA1NOyDdtSpCXuy5pRDPf_-D5YWp6aOVeLSlFHzYS65vwJ4rzD0i_0lVyvVYAPzHlrkVrjQ-EUybcAJVoz9eSho4PdtFhO3BKGid42b0q5ThVhH-NxKQ5sZQtaYiX_juu_Oh7VRd8/w640-h426/pexels-pixabay-236164.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在人生旅程中總是走得最踏實的是誰—是時間啊</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「不論發生什麼事,時間依舊往前走,而其實在每個當下你早已開始練習展開雙翅」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">今天兒子拍畢業照,我記得上週發通知單時,內心的感受還沒有那麼多,豈料昨晚感受比寫作靈感還要多。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">昨晚你洗好澡後,就開始在房間的衣櫥裡翻找,一會兒問我某件襯衫,或是某件衣服在哪?比來比去後又否絕你剛才已決定好的搭配,你在你的房間裡好忙好忙。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">好不容易你都想好,你想要的穿搭與配件後,你超開心的跑來跟我們說:「你看,我明天就要這樣穿拍照。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">還有,還有,「媽咪,妳明天早上可以幫我抹髮蠟做造型嗎?我要這邊這樣的,然後那邊是要上面一點的。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">看你快樂又期待的整理明天拍畢業照的模樣,又將自己弄得好忙好亂,還有那滿床的衣物,好認真,也好可愛。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這時,媽媽仰著頭深深的深呼吸,因為我的眼淚快要掉下來了。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZbNLTBw0XD8WDs32t4HG_Nd1grCMvv8EoD_SgYMYxtC5K3he3qi68sD_JIZkYC0lFfDXQJG7I39sp-na0WRJYKZFRsUvO9udbv7cznAjESCRUzw4WCKAfCVlnf1hdILnX4JgJ0YyCxcPoWJgnSgvOllpiyVuTX30pPPMPcoKLGbsvxCSBTuTQYphDLkY/s6000/pexels-pixabay-207891.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="6000" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZbNLTBw0XD8WDs32t4HG_Nd1grCMvv8EoD_SgYMYxtC5K3he3qi68sD_JIZkYC0lFfDXQJG7I39sp-na0WRJYKZFRsUvO9udbv7cznAjESCRUzw4WCKAfCVlnf1hdILnX4JgJ0YyCxcPoWJgnSgvOllpiyVuTX30pPPMPcoKLGbsvxCSBTuTQYphDLkY/w640-h426/pexels-pixabay-207891.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「兒子啊!我可以抱你一下嗎?」兒子立刻衝了上來展開熊抱,回應我的擁抱。「媽咪,我愛妳!」說完,就又馬上轉身,繼續忙著。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">今早還因為後面頭髮不聽話亂翹而臭臉,還好我們一起將那任性的翹髮打溼,然後吹順它,讓你期待的樣子,最後能成功呈現。瞧你照鏡子的模樣,我知道你很滿意。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">你知道,在我們的人生旅程之中,總是最踏實走每一步的是誰嗎?</strong></span><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><blockquote class="lexical__quote" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; border-left: 5px solid var(--gray-4); box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: 1.85em; margin: 30px 0px 30px 20px; outline: 0px; padding-left: 24px; transition-duration: 0.3s; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="color: #2b00fe; font-size: small;">「時間!就是時間,不論發生什麼事,它依舊往前走。」看著那個曾被抱在懷中的嬰兒,已長成一個大男孩,我才又再次感受時間推動的力量。 </span></span></blockquote><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">希望孩子不要太快長大,又希望孩子快點長大。這種矛盾的心情,我想身為父母的你們一定也懂。我想就和孩子一樣吧! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子一方面急著快點長大獨立,而一方面也還是想和小時候一樣黏著爸媽,也想能向爸媽撒嬌。到現在,仍然有時候硬要跟我們擠在一起睡的你,常讓我們哭笑不得啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">但是,我們心裡最真的想法,當然是百分百願意啊!也喜歡你時而小大人,時而小小孩的模樣。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">#河合隼雄 曾在書中提到——獨立需要孩子靠自己的力量逐漸站起來,因此,趁著孩子還需要依賴父母,就讓孩子盡情撒嬌,並且相信孩子可以,只要一直陪在孩子身邊就行了。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">是的,讀了#河合隼雄的書,很慶幸你的依賴,我們一直都是輕輕拾著並非常珍惜的。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">你知道嗎?爸爸和我一樣,每一年你在各方面都長大了一些時,我們都會想著你未來你能夠自由飛翔的那一天,而殊不知,其實在每個當下,你已慢慢的開始練習展開雙翅。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">回想你還是一年級新生時,是全班的分離焦慮最久的那個小孩;但沒想到好快,你就不要我們陪你去上學,也不要牽手,因為你說:「我自己已經長大了,我可以的!」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我們也曾想過會和大部份的孩子與父母一樣,順利地渡過國小階段,只是沒想到那一年發生老師的暴力不當管教後,一切全變了樣。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不論是你或是我們,完全不知道如何面對內心的創傷和衝擊,好多的痛苦、衝突和結束都在我們之間爆發,而爆裂的碎片,插進我們的身體之中,讓我們每個人都受傷了。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">看著你變得如此不一樣,看著你當時的眼神和行為,我感到陌生和恐懼,我們不知道該如何呵護你的傷,無助和哭泣的每個夜晚,我仍然記憶猶新。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">多想代替你承受內心的創傷,無奈爸爸和我無法代替你,我曾害怕失去「原本」的你,和我們之間原本的關係。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">可是,我們怎麼樣都沒想到,你卻比任何人都想得還要強大。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">所有關心你的大人們都希望你轉校,但你卻仍然堅持繼續留在原校,你哭著跟我們說:「做錯事的人並不是我,為什麼是我要離開。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">聽你這麼說,媽媽也哭了。原來大人們心裡所想的以為是你要的,但任何人都不能代替你。沒關係,即便已知這是一條崎嶇不平的路,但我們陪你一起,直到現在,我們一直都在進步的路上。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">有時媽媽也會想,這所有的發生和後來,一直到現在未完待續著的一切,難道是提前的個體化冒險嗎?想跟你說聲「辛苦了。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">醫師和心理師對爸爸和我說:「這個孩子的內在很強大,都是因為他擁有你們的愛。」雖然當時聽到時哭到無法自己,也還是擔心著你。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">但持續往前走的「時間」它讓我看見也感受到那些話是真的,而不是安慰。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子啊!謝謝你也如此愛著我們。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">你,是如何成為現在的你。原因就是——你就是你! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">爸爸和媽媽雖然是爸爸媽媽,但我們也不會停止學習,更會一直陪伴著你成長,進入青春期後的我們也許也會有不愉快、不開心,但同時也會有幸福快樂的時刻,都別擔心,這才是正常的親子之間啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">就像是 #蠟筆小新 每次都說美冴是「恐怖妖怪老婆婆」,廣志是「恐怖妖怪又腳臭的老公公」是一樣的吧!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">青春期,我們走著瞧!</strong></span><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">理解彼此最真誠的那一部份,和與現實的差距,你會發現因為人本來就不完美,所以才顯得獨一無二。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">愛你也一直祝福著你,願你健康與自在。 </span><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbNP1UOM9sTlJcnEWgnrAvat0rgvpeR6xk5bcE_VSdy2LLfBrCtEBkuU7_GYyr97QoHndadPT7wMVnbjwPmBEV7lW3zLCmUWqGvhkgh8fJt9izwL35YzqdOfcyE2YaC9GuT69o9wpvahf_wTn7_83GCQ9lJ6nxI7dDJmcCqGzlZt2_c_aggierpUbjXp0/s2880/SelfieCity_20230912195019_org.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; 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font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">原本的小背包已經背不下了,換了新的背包的當天,我一直拍你的背影。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">你,真的長大了喔!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-58014862131860893612023-09-12T17:04:00.000-07:002023-09-12T17:04:30.397-07:00哭鬧著不戴口罩的小小孩,在聽了一句話後,立刻開心戴上口罩!<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn6hrs7fO1eJ8C4HnErkqIQ19ez1gtaNVnth_W0zrn9wXGCC07iTVcBlPWwLasHADOkCcFvM3LqvUOLe0iU3l4D_BSyKv8k6v91zp_ejISd5hhPpnlsvtbUc3ldUrT_u1lyIME9mrSkfHGygIfvUleaYC-rRtL6Axka2P6PoASl5BEj7pe42MyB7gZCPQ/s6000/pexels-august-de-richelieu-4261252.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4004" data-original-width="6000" height="428" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjn6hrs7fO1eJ8C4HnErkqIQ19ez1gtaNVnth_W0zrn9wXGCC07iTVcBlPWwLasHADOkCcFvM3LqvUOLe0iU3l4D_BSyKv8k6v91zp_ejISd5hhPpnlsvtbUc3ldUrT_u1lyIME9mrSkfHGygIfvUleaYC-rRtL6Axka2P6PoASl5BEj7pe42MyB7gZCPQ/w640-h428/pexels-august-de-richelieu-4261252.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">『一個善意的小遊戲,讓小小孩願意戴上口罩保護自己了!真棒!』</span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">連假的第三天仍是往返醫院的行程,不過現在入院前的檢疫變得更加嚴謹了,除了量額溫外,還要另外檢測健保卡的出國旅遊史,如果有出國則會在手上蓋上一個記號的章,除此之外還需要走到另一動線做身體目前狀況的諮詢。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">雖然每個人手上的章別不同,但保護自己與他人是防疫最重要的第一步,有了章別可以辬識出國旅遊史,做完一連串的檢測與諮詢後才能離開至診間。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我在候診時看到一個小男孩,因為有點不耐等候時間漫長,一下拿這個、一下要那個,最後又把口罩拿下來甩著玩,媽媽很溫柔地告訴他,要保護好自己,小心病毒,把口罩戴上。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">小男孩沒有回答,但還是把口罩乖乖載上。不到一分鐘的時間,小男孩又把口罩拉下來甩著玩,媽媽沒有生氣很堅定地說:把口罩帶上,寶貝,聽到嗎?</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">小男孩又把口罩給戴上,但過沒多久又忍不住拉下來扯玩,媽媽最後使出殺手鐧「我數到3喔!快點戴好,快點!乖!」媽媽還是沒有對小男孩生氣,讓我感到媽媽的溫暖也很欣慰。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">整天戴著口罩,又在密閉的醫院候診區,別說是小孩了,就連我們大人都覺得悶熱,也難以順暢的呼吸,而且孩子動來動去的,在可以呼吸但空間卻小到不行的口罩裡,實在是很不舒服啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子不像大人可以忍耐,所以不停地拉下口罩。我想他的媽媽可以理解,所以沒有對他生氣。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">但是在旁邊的我,看著來來往往的人群,同為媽媽的我也會擔心男孩的健康,於是放下正在看著書收進包包,慢慢吸引小男孩的目光,對著他微笑,不過我戴著口罩,小男孩看不到我的微笑,所以我先向他揮了揮手問好。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「弟弟好棒啊!戴口罩悶悶地,一定不舒服,可是你還是記得媽媽的提醒把口罩戴上。」我說。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「都不戴,會生更嚴重的病,要打針喔!快點戴上!」小男孩的媽媽再次提醒著,依然沒有生氣。可是男孩像被定格住了,沒有任何動作。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「弟弟啊!戴口罩可以防止病毒,我想你一定知道,但是我們有一個遊戲是大家可以一起玩的哦!我也正在玩,我可以跟你說遊戲的玩法,你再決定要不要加入這個遊戲。」小男孩瞪大了眼睛看了我一眼,又用眼神懇請媽媽的模樣很可愛。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「這個遊戲很簡單,就是載上口罩不要被發現真實的身份,一直到離開了醫院。假設離開了醫院都沒有被發現真實的身份,就是最大的隱藏者喔!你有......」</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我話還沒有說完,小男孩就像準備好了要玩遊戲一樣,趕緊把口罩戴上。也幫媽媽把口罩扶好,用小小的食指比「噓」的動作,並東瞧西瞧的,怕被發現真實的身份。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">小男孩的口罩戴好也笑了。媽媽笑了,而我也笑了。男孩終於舉起手和我揮手ByeBye。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">希望忍不住向前和小男孩互動的我,可以讓小男孩無聊的候診時間多了一點樂趣,孩子的耐心是慢慢訓練出來的,而不是邊罵邊威脅要孩子乖乖聽話。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子的思考比不上大人有較大的彈性空間,有時候孩子不是故意或是耍脾氣,而是真的不知道為什麼要這樣?或是不知道要做什麼?這是再正常不過的事了。只是父母急著要解決當下的問題而忍不住衝出了情緒。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子非常需要我們的引導和陪伴,原因不是怕他無聊,更不是要訓練孩子乖乖坐好。而是練習超過一種方式的思考與環境的應變。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">今天與小男孩的相遇對我而言也是一種學習,我們要學習讀懂小小孩的訊息,和肢體表達,別再用不耐煩和滿滿的情緒和孩子共學,這樣二敗俱傷的後果,復原期有時候不是二、三天而是一輩子啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">感謝今日美好的相遇,讓我們的「同理心」重新出發,在安全合理的空間裡,重新建立新的關係,讓親子關係更靠近。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微寫於2022.03.01,當天孩子的轉變實在很可愛,但也不好意思打擾了。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-57815138017709597342023-09-11T18:15:00.002-07:002023-09-11T18:15:27.313-07:00當父親將女兒的手交出去的那一刻<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyJL03Ur_klS1Z_K3jFGQEW6q539uDVBGE978tIMbO8UmRh5eQwProsQ-fQKhQdzz5EpkMbpH6nrsf4DaIIzQQ2F98v47zIYyhFjlbdnTAWSNKnzpPAsIZfVVw-nSxVKeJMOMoILrXFCxqHz3-dtPTirMmWlKyOioKOcRi9u4hd2i6-LWYpG1Df5otQjg/s6016/pexels-emma-bauso-2253870.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4016" data-original-width="6016" height="428" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyJL03Ur_klS1Z_K3jFGQEW6q539uDVBGE978tIMbO8UmRh5eQwProsQ-fQKhQdzz5EpkMbpH6nrsf4DaIIzQQ2F98v47zIYyhFjlbdnTAWSNKnzpPAsIZfVVw-nSxVKeJMOMoILrXFCxqHz3-dtPTirMmWlKyOioKOcRi9u4hd2i6-LWYpG1Df5otQjg/w640-h428/pexels-emma-bauso-2253870.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">以前兒子還小,參加婚禮總要擔心孩子能否撐得過整個婚禮過程,也想著各種預料之外的狀況我們是否Hold得住,還好,我們都只是多想了。</span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">抱著孩子邊搖邊吃飯,輪流換班,誰有空誰先吃,是一種一家三口參加婚宴再正常不過。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">現在兒子長大了,安穩地坐在我們倆的中間,會向叔叔阿姨打招呼,會問那些和我們交談的人是誰?很要好的好朋友嗎?像我和班上同學那樣很好的好朋友嗎?</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">對什麼都感到相當好奇,也專注地聽大人們的談話內容,彷彿也想參與其中。而我也覺得兒子不像兒子,像是個談得來的「伴」!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子其實很喜歡聽大人們的故事,尤其是小時候的故事,那對孩子來說有一種擋不住的吸引力,聽見爸媽小時候的故事,很貼近爸媽的小時候,有一種親切!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那晚,他的臉上有種自信的神情,我想是因為大家都誇獎他很棒吧!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">漫長的開席等待,和各個長官、處長、官員的祝福之後,婚禮終於正式開始了,音樂響起的那一瞬間,大家的目光都定在迎接處的那扇華麗的金色門上,等待著新娘出現。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">開啟金色大門後,歡呼祝福聲浪不斷,新娘的爸爸挽著新娘的手慢慢前進走向前方已準備好的新郎,新郎和新娘臉上的幸福笑意感染了每個人,而爸爸對新郎的肯定與滿意更是藏不住。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">當爸爸將女兒的手交出去的那一刻,爸爸語重心長地對新郎說了幾句話,新郎認真地回覆和拼命地點頭答應,這一刻我想讓很多人的眼角都失守了。</strong></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「一定要互相扶持、一定要互相體諒,你要好好照顧她,妳也要好好照顧他。」這是我的爸爸將我的手交到J手上說的一句話,我到現在還記得。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那天和父母的拜別儀式,我的心情很是複雜,因為當時我正與婚前恐懼症交手著,看到爸爸媽媽在我拜別的那一刻哭了,讓我更加不捨,眼淚也停不下來。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">心裡更是懷疑自己即將前往的下一階段,會是什麼樣的未來?為什麼我穿著浪漫的婚紗卻感受不到幸福和期待呢?</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「別想太多了,結婚要開心!」是我給自己的一種精神力量,但婚前恐懼仍然困擾著我,我在日記裡寫下無數次:恐懼和壓力不會阻礙幸福(吧)?!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">用另一種角度思考,我並未把結婚想得太夢幻或是太粉紅也是好事,代表著我有危機意識,可以更坦然(吧)?!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">每當參加婚禮看到新娘的爸爸將新娘的手交出去的那一刻,我都會想起爸爸對我們說的那句話,然後,眼淚就會跑出來搶鏡頭。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; font-style: inherit; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZcFWP7s6d3biSjWAMSHppdjVBQfT4bHSy8dc1XKSL8bOB5OBTe6s8yXyI_nWjBzGCQqWnsJ0KmvAvXZ844rfvwF-ngXB7jwrQ7Y0w38N6tBPnoqKfDtBg-roX0p0tk99n8QYp3qKm3fHJikKcWBWwIXf05lJeAJd1wN-eEKxT0gsCpHvR-8wxOexFFk/s4724/pexels-i%CC%87brahim-hakk%C4%B1-u%C3%A7man-3342697.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3149" data-original-width="4724" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIZcFWP7s6d3biSjWAMSHppdjVBQfT4bHSy8dc1XKSL8bOB5OBTe6s8yXyI_nWjBzGCQqWnsJ0KmvAvXZ844rfvwF-ngXB7jwrQ7Y0w38N6tBPnoqKfDtBg-roX0p0tk99n8QYp3qKm3fHJikKcWBWwIXf05lJeAJd1wN-eEKxT0gsCpHvR-8wxOexFFk/w640-h426/pexels-i%CC%87brahim-hakk%C4%B1-u%C3%A7man-3342697.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><i>把手交給J的那一刻並不代表將永遠幸福,因為幸福不是靠長久不變的關係,而是感受隨時變動的生活與細節,還能夠知道這一切值得繼續。</i></strong></span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這次帶著兒子出席婚禮,我居然看著新娘新郎也開始幻想著兒子的未來,兒子也會和心愛的人在一起,在幾十年後經過時代的轉變,對於步入人生的另一個階段會有什麼不同的看法與做法呢?一樣會結婚嗎?還是?</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不論未來怎麼變,愛與真誠是唯一不會變的真諦,希望兒子和心愛的另一半能夠因為相愛而相守,不被任何社會框架束縛,不被他人的期待牽絆,也別在過度期待裡磨損彼此的生命,努力追求自我,活得自在幸福!</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這是在成為了媽媽後,第一次有這樣的感覺,好奇妙也覺得不可思議,只不過是參加婚禮,感受也不知不覺地「媽媽化」了。</span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.8px; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那晚不太冷,婚禮結束後,我們又去敦南誠品抱書暖心了,小小的日常有著大大的幸福!</span></span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; 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font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「成為夫妻後,無論是順境或是逆境,富有或貧窮,健康或疾病,我將永遠愛你、珍惜你直到地老天長、不離不棄。 我承諾對你永遠真心與忠誠。」</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">小時候看著浪漫的愛情戲,總是對感動人心的誓詞與山盟海誓抱著很大的期待,也內化成每個人的愛情觀。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">可是當真正面臨到順境或富有時,能夠找回初衷而不被誘惑改變嗎?當面臨逆境或貧窮時,真的又能夠不離不棄直到永遠嗎?</strong></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">沒有親身經歷體驗過,怎能有深刻的體會和覺知呢?那些愛、情和山盟海誓會不會只是我們單方面慾望的延伸和過度期待呢?</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">做夫妻和做父母一樣無法預習,所有的練習課題都在成為了夫妻、成為了父母後才開始學習做夫妻做父母,很多時候都會被挫折打敗,但是這才是真正的生活啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">回過頭想起那些挫折反而像倒吃甘蔗般越來越甜,雖然也有可能是傷,因為文化差異,讓二個獨立的個體在結合之後,反而形成一種看似合理的卻又極為複雜的不對等關係,和種種被隱藏在合理裡的不對等付出、犧牲、忍耐、接受。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><strong class="lexical__textBold" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><i>幸福裡不是只有圓滿,而是由各種不同形狀的相遇和碰撞堆砌而成的人生故事。</i></strong></span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">回想起我在孕後病倒的那段日子裡,我們的心裡各自有需扛下的巨大壓力,還有許多責備,是聽久了就像是已經發生遺憾的自責與難堪壓力,讓我不覺得也不願意J應該要繼續為我不離不棄,因為婚姻不是綁住了對方硬要對方履行承諾才是真正的婚姻。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我想,我們的婚姻哲學是從那一場大病才開始學習的,學習才剛開始,繼續練習前進著。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">原來生命裡發生的每件事,都是有寓意和道理,現在我很感謝生命裡的每一個發生、每一次相遇!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; 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font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwQkPLCOtN04kCMwIrIlZN2ImXCP58O8RerDLJWAlmp_ffKLzBK80hR-O_tcuetH5fbyIVnWiid_dErv0rQLH6mPgZ1l-r0l7-q4EKKb4114AnEv_zEyE4_k_5kacmzcMnplZHZVA_zdpkAtAgZHHBshgOP9hvtYLuRstV8ZlAYXIgEt4oh0po9zVOrqA/s2048/80850440_987357254958440_8546918110823710720_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1163" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwQkPLCOtN04kCMwIrIlZN2ImXCP58O8RerDLJWAlmp_ffKLzBK80hR-O_tcuetH5fbyIVnWiid_dErv0rQLH6mPgZ1l-r0l7-q4EKKb4114AnEv_zEyE4_k_5kacmzcMnplZHZVA_zdpkAtAgZHHBshgOP9hvtYLuRstV8ZlAYXIgEt4oh0po9zVOrqA/w364-h640/80850440_987357254958440_8546918110823710720_n.jpg" width="364" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這是我在成為妻子與母親後的感觸!照片中是我們和兒子小小的手一起用柳橙汁舉杯慶祝著,慶祝著什麼呢?就是當天兒子在婚宴會場裡玩了很開心。</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; 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position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p></div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-23369043274070921632023-09-11T17:23:00.004-07:002023-09-11T17:23:41.828-07:00沒有所謂的符合標準的幸福劇本,只有適合彼此的劇本,那就是最佳劇本了<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGUXVamkUlhwZEUN26R3gPLX_bv3SPX1BMQdozZfSYi3bMlTc9D2Pjdvjy_GERRA-u0_q0yF1VLqg1l6NZ80RJFN859EpbwQC0Y-o4-6vQ31L4D0QrNydi_e48hiDN6yvV1fwxQi90B8ToRhDmcZAo8YXF9PuG0Jwef2EbEhDYYMZ-X0QtuX5jQ8JHxLs/s6240/pexels-wendy-wei-18180984.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4160" data-original-width="6240" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGUXVamkUlhwZEUN26R3gPLX_bv3SPX1BMQdozZfSYi3bMlTc9D2Pjdvjy_GERRA-u0_q0yF1VLqg1l6NZ80RJFN859EpbwQC0Y-o4-6vQ31L4D0QrNydi_e48hiDN6yvV1fwxQi90B8ToRhDmcZAo8YXF9PuG0Jwef2EbEhDYYMZ-X0QtuX5jQ8JHxLs/w640-h426/pexels-wendy-wei-18180984.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">媽媽朋友送孩子上學後和我聊著,「剛結婚時還覺得二人世界很甜蜜,有了孩子後開始變得不太一樣,雖然覺得很幸福,但和老公之間總覺得少了以前的火花,以前在LINE裡總是彼此黏TT的想念,但現在很少了。」</span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">進入家庭,有了孩子,一切的追求和穩定需求,都以家庭為主,真的不如以往只有兩人世界那樣。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">朋友的話,讓我也開始回想 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">於是我打開了我和J的LINE對話,手刷了幾下發現,我們的對話裡也會有思念、鼓勵和關懷,但大部份都圍繞在兒子、女兒、柴米油鹽醬醋茶裡居多。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">哈哈~好寫實的家庭生活啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「疑?現在好像只有『大特價』可以激起我們的火花了(幾乎是煙火等級😆😆😆)......」在我說完後,我們倆大笑著。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_ITet2WbFZWJWQZgfFTdAoZIxWGYwLdzUQYeFrl3UyZKV_UPvwvHkJuAXN6vQ8R6sVIQ1uRJl8iteHfKia1DYMo-Y4P5pMrgxcvd1GAd0l_I_IuIUnoz2YyltW_go_3-X41lA5bIkcoqPNoHM7ZfMw-a_fmlRd8b-lsceeJA7nt9xDVPKtpLDWL-m_zE/s1522/78201559_971182149909284_8084039190297182208_n%20(1).jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1522" data-original-width="1080" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_ITet2WbFZWJWQZgfFTdAoZIxWGYwLdzUQYeFrl3UyZKV_UPvwvHkJuAXN6vQ8R6sVIQ1uRJl8iteHfKia1DYMo-Y4P5pMrgxcvd1GAd0l_I_IuIUnoz2YyltW_go_3-X41lA5bIkcoqPNoHM7ZfMw-a_fmlRd8b-lsceeJA7nt9xDVPKtpLDWL-m_zE/w284-h400/78201559_971182149909284_8084039190297182208_n%20(1).jpg" width="284" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在婚姻,在家庭裡,誰不希望有更多的心動和被肯定,但能夠理解彼此想要的和懂得感謝彼此的好,才能維持長久的關係。雖然在自己的期待裡少了些實現。 </span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不過懂得理想與現實的差距,就能懂得更多彼此好與真誠的那一部份,因為人本來就不完美。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><b>沒有所謂的符合標準的幸福劇本,只有適合彼此的劇本,那就是最佳劇本了——微微。</b></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px; text-align: left;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p></div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-4308524839546400952023-09-11T11:02:00.003-07:002023-09-11T11:02:55.796-07:00我們從不想限制孩子的發展,但實際上有太多失控我們無法掌握。<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_aF9qL1RqNqRGNXY1PKyL40MzSTuIrdZE6zNsThaqi8vgSOo-xFRymjE9y8GvhPR4_fnCxhalyDWAX6JJcDY-6AiVargbpLhx5HVKuxy-1KF6gtzuRYsa6zD52Gzn4ABFMoWPZIa3D411_TCtHNiiMf-GGwh8_GS2rb_AcHSOQ7VLzSSrPMjrE_Vd-IQ/s5202/pexels-juan-pablo-serrano-arenas-827991.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3468" data-original-width="5202" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_aF9qL1RqNqRGNXY1PKyL40MzSTuIrdZE6zNsThaqi8vgSOo-xFRymjE9y8GvhPR4_fnCxhalyDWAX6JJcDY-6AiVargbpLhx5HVKuxy-1KF6gtzuRYsa6zD52Gzn4ABFMoWPZIa3D411_TCtHNiiMf-GGwh8_GS2rb_AcHSOQ7VLzSSrPMjrE_Vd-IQ/w640-h426/pexels-juan-pablo-serrano-arenas-827991.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-8dfb07e8-7fff-36e1-0fda-eb1d15074ab6"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「孩子啊!在成長的路上有時會好辛苦的,很高興你從未因此放棄」 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">週五聽兒子說了一件讓我很心疼也很錯愕的事,到現在心裡仍然有點緊繃。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「我媽媽說你是壞孩子,會和老師頂嘴,要我不要一直去跟你玩,會被帶壞等等......」兒子說X同學在當天和他說了數次,他覺得非常難過也生氣,但只能忍著。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我不知道發生了什麼事情,讓X同學的媽媽造成如此大的擔憂和誤解。但這並不是事情的全貌,而事實的真相也並非如此。我們實在很難不介入協助彼此理解。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我很感謝兒子願意告訴我們,如果他選擇忍耐,那麼他的校園生活會是怎樣,我們真的不敢想像。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不知大家是否還記得,今年六月左右我曾在粉專發過一篇兒子面臨實際學習的為難。如果大家有興趣可以去找那一篇貼文。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">文章內容大約是這樣子的:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">當時的老師常用這樣的方式和孩子們說話:「你們功課這麼爛,以後沒學校可唸,你們長大就只能當街友」、「白目小孩」、「智障」、「又臭」、「又肥」、「又醜」、「愛哭鬼」,你們有些家長就只會......等等。造成部份孩子們不滿。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">孩子很生氣老師這樣對同學說,兒子也多次向我們表示有這樣的狀況,但弔詭的是,老師都說沒有,讓我們無所適從。可是在家長的群組中,卻曾看見老師留言有關此事的訊息,所以到底是怎麼一回事,說真的,我們一開始也像隻無頭蒼蠅,試著理出頭緒。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子曾向老師反應多次,這樣的行為是言語暴力,但是老師就會生氣,或是說孩子們對他「嗆聲」、「頂嘴」;但如果孩子也模仿老師這樣說別人,就會被該師罵,不然就是以「小心他父母告死你」這樣的話語來引導同學。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">某些同學因受不了該師的溝通方式,例如:動不動就拿下課時間或是喜愛的課程來威脅,還有連坐法,或是許多不公平的管理。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">該師曾說兒子都是代替全班同學發聲的那個人。兒子向老師反應那是言語暴力和剝奪,希望老師不要這樣說話也要和同學們道歉........。聽到兒子這麼說後,我不禁肅然起敬,看著眼前的小巨人,好努力地想要為同學和自己做些什麼而感動,至少證明我們的陪伴和教導是沒有扭曲他的心,但卻也深深感慨著他的處境。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「你們不是從小就告訴我,大人不一定是對的,也教我要學會去分辬、思考,但當身邊的人都不敢說出那些其實是剝削和言語暴力時,我真的感到恐懼和不知所措。」兒子常累積了整天的不平,回家和我們說,且他很怕自己只是個小孩,會被不信任。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我只是一個小孩子,誰會相信我說的,為什麼大人永遠都是對的,小孩永遠都是錯的。兒子氣哭了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">於是在經歷多次溝通未果後,兒子想用生氣和失落表達抗議,但這怎麼可能被允許,最後吞下承擔後果的人依舊是孩子啊!可能也像其它孩子一樣被貼上了標籤。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">有一次發生在我住院治療時,老師打電話給我,我聽到兒子又生氣又傷心,當下,我真的很想立刻將手上所有針管拔掉,逃出醫院直奔學校;而後我也不小心聽到老師語重心長嚴肅地唸兒子不懂事:「媽媽生病,你還這麼不乖。」拿著話筒的我,眼淚掉不停。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">但,他真的是不「乖」嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我們真的要教孩子無條件服從嗎?我們說的與做的總是不一致,孩子們已經不是小小孩,有糖就會「乖」,其實他們早就發現不對勁了,這不是孩子叛逆,而是孩子已有獨立思考的能力,只是需要大人們的協助和整合,我們不是應該感到欣慰嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在成長的過程中,也許在「意識」的教導中,將各種控制的語言內化成表達能力。孩子終其一生都只能順從權威,也不會發現不對等的權力與關係,將影響重要的身心發展。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這是多麼重要的一件事,可惜我們並不想去思考,或許大環境太難改變,所以任其一成不變也是一種傳統(嗎)?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">其實那名老師已離職,現在是一位新的老師,新老師並不清楚之前所有的事情,但我們也不希望造成老師的任何壓力和負擔,只希望X同學事件,能夠藉此將不清楚的誤會解開,並教導孩子互相尊重和信任,而最後結果不論是否為我們想像那樣,至少我們都為彼此孩子們做了良好的示範。(應該吧?)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">許多事沒有正確解答,甚至在二難間也找不出更好的做法,但與其什麼都不做,至少我們也要為「孩子們」做些什麼,即使是如此的微不足道。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">但我一直都相信積沙是會成塔的,只要我們不輕易放棄正在做的事。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不論是已離職的老師,或其它老師,您們的用心我們教能感受得到,我們從未質疑過,也由衷的感謝您們對孩子的付出。真的非常感激。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今天選擇寫出來前也考慮了很久,我們並非要做些什麼,#也希望大家不要謾罵或責備,或是讓事件被引向其它方向,這都不是我們想要的結果。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我們只希望,把所有誤會解開,師生之間能有「雙向的」、「權利對等」的溝通管道。而親師之間,我們仍然會做好親師合作的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子的創傷仍未痊癒,希望此事別讓好一陣子的進步又退回了些。身為爸媽的擔心。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">擁有權力的人指的並非是大官,孩子和父母、師長之間也是不對等的權力;如果我們未有覺察,那麼很多其實是控制的行為,往往被包裝成是「為你好」的扭曲真相。讓孩子忽略自己的感受和情感,去相信那些話語帶來的痛苦是因為「愛」。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">要獲得愛的方式需通過層層考驗和控制——這會成為孩子一輩子的信念,然後用盡方法去討好,或是去搶奪「被愛」的價值和歸屬感。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">語言—可以傷害、毀滅一個人;也可以帶給人力量。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不帶目的性、同理與鼓勵的的語言是一種祝福,代表著我們對孩子的信任和最深的愛。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; padding: 6pt 0pt 0pt 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">衷心盼望每個在不完美的環境裡長大的我們,都能有機會覺察,不論是自己或是孩子,都需要好好的擁抱自己、照顧和陪伴自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: white; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">#很少像這樣用如此低落的心情和大家預告😢</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">每日早上07:30的《微晨時光》又開張了。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">記得訂閱「#微與孩子們的日常」https://reurl.cc/3,就能準時收聽囉!</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; 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</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-9710021844459568512023-09-11T10:54:00.005-07:002023-09-11T10:55:28.809-07:00當人設越完美時,就越難找到外在與自我的平衡《雅希葉的倒影》<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ8F_wW71RRHkBSMwuDWuqvi-EsXDBPEHxo73thg4fQ4_zEnf4s3lOx1ZpahVfaBNXAD3fR2K4tR8OrevRXNtC-k1NDhTq5VsBL9flBuZ0xF5eem_QbYB5vfpIZ5i0Z_NlTpuyVhDwa38M2tcqk73SIDnWWCzZaSjfGrVyAzKot34mGE8LUTFo-oeGrHQ/s2231/SelfieCity_20230909233933_org.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2231" data-original-width="1868" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ8F_wW71RRHkBSMwuDWuqvi-EsXDBPEHxo73thg4fQ4_zEnf4s3lOx1ZpahVfaBNXAD3fR2K4tR8OrevRXNtC-k1NDhTq5VsBL9flBuZ0xF5eem_QbYB5vfpIZ5i0Z_NlTpuyVhDwa38M2tcqk73SIDnWWCzZaSjfGrVyAzKot34mGE8LUTFo-oeGrHQ/w536-h640/SelfieCity_20230909233933_org.jpg" width="536" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p> <span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">大家早安,歡迎來到</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%BE%AE%E6%99%A8%E6%99%82%E5%85%89?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUMD5vWHuudiJfhLVsiC03H82QEsHg0CeWOG4aFyMRfR3ELawM_JsTj_F1Y3f2uf-Voi-Nx0xeK5KhpcoTTpAdMxe0RWTGghovJa_OvYWqpOm7vkj5zu3Y7vKkqKqOm2Gwzt1-Snsyll3Vtvqd2Fw7VlETCMzyHnWO3glBdJfJwMQUaZnpdjm7qhVi332N-Giw&__tn__=R]-R" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1155cc; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">微晨時光</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">》</span></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-9db94a55-7fff-6f92-5d91-d5c1a8598f5c"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">用繪本開啟每一天。用可以聽的早餐,滋養我們的心靈</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今天我們要用</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%9C%A8%E6%88%91%E8%A2%AB%E5%90%83%E6%8E%89%E4%BB%A5%E5%89%8D?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUMD5vWHuudiJfhLVsiC03H82QEsHg0CeWOG4aFyMRfR3ELawM_JsTj_F1Y3f2uf-Voi-Nx0xeK5KhpcoTTpAdMxe0RWTGghovJa_OvYWqpOm7vkj5zu3Y7vKkqKqOm2Gwzt1-Snsyll3Vtvqd2Fw7VlETCMzyHnWO3glBdJfJwMQUaZnpdjm7qhVi332N-Giw&__tn__=R]-R" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1155cc; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">#</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希葉的倒影》來開啟我們的一天。</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">繪本的</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">創作者:瑪希安.卡迪(Marion Kadi),翻譯者是尉遲秀老師,由大塊文化出版。這是今年七月的新繪本。一開始被繪本的大膽又奔放的畫風吸引著,也好奇「倒影」變成獅子是怎麼回事呢?所以忍不住翻閱,但是仔細一翻閱才發現這是榮獲2022波隆那晝展拉加獎新秀首獎的繪本呢!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在扉頁中看見的獅子瞇著眼很開心的感覺,讓我有種熟悉的感覺,馬上就想到了佐野洋子的《飛天獅子》,但再繼續閱讀後,就會發現不一樣,完全不一樣喔!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%9C%A8%E6%88%91%E8%A2%AB%E5%90%83%E6%8E%89%E4%BB%A5%E5%89%8D?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUMD5vWHuudiJfhLVsiC03H82QEsHg0CeWOG4aFyMRfR3ELawM_JsTj_F1Y3f2uf-Voi-Nx0xeK5KhpcoTTpAdMxe0RWTGghovJa_OvYWqpOm7vkj5zu3Y7vKkqKqOm2Gwzt1-Snsyll3Vtvqd2Fw7VlETCMzyHnWO3glBdJfJwMQUaZnpdjm7qhVi332N-Giw&__tn__=R]-R" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: #1155cc; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">#</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希葉的倒影》</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">說的是什麼樣的故事呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: transparent; font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">有一隻活力滿滿的獅子,一輩子在狩獵、進食和睡覺,這倒是真的,因為牠們幾乎沒什麼天敵。但是有一天生命終於還是來到了結束的時候,牠死了,從此跟隨他一生的倒影變得孤零零的,像失去了主人一樣,了無生氣。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這位曾是獅子的倒影,牠沒有閒著,也是也沒有很積極地要找新主人,看到花或是鴨子,完全沒想成為牠們的倒影,於是牠決定離開草原,但去哪裡也沒有目的,就是走了好久好久好久,終於看到一棟房子。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">那是一位名叫雅希葉的家,倒影踮著腳站在窗外觀察雅希葉的一切,也充滿期待,當下牠就決定要當雅希葉的倒影。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希葉在上學的途上,碰上一灘水,倒影就立刻縱身跳到水邊旁。雅希葉看著自己在水中的倒影感到不可思議,覺得自己今天特別凶猛有氣勢,於是她整個人都振奮起來。在學校也玩得很開心。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而且,雅希葉再也不害怕在上課時主動發言了,不過她卻需要很長的睡眠時間,食量也變大了很多。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這一天雅希葉非常自豪,覺得自己變了,而「倒影」也與有榮焉。然而時間一久,雅希葉就忘了自己原來的倒影是什麼了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希葉變得和「倒影」的天性很相像,例如變很很野,會張開大口露出獠牙,大口大口的吃吃喝喝,而在課堂中,雅希葉從不敢發言的人變成時常大吼嗥叫,影響了身邊的人,但明明是和倒影一起,可是挨罵的就只有雅希葉一個人。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希雅因此意識到一件事——那就是「倒影裡的那個人」根本就不是我,那是獅子的倒影,可是我是我啊。雅希葉開始著急尋找自己原本的倒影去了哪裡,可是怎麼找都找不到,最後在床底下找到一面小鏡子。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而雅希葉在鏡子裡的終於看見許久未見的自己了!但一直跟著雅希葉的那位=獅子倒影,牠也還是雅希葉的倒影,跟著她如影隨行,現在雅希葉有二個倒影了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而且,最重要的是它們學習一起生活。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">故事說到這裡就結束了,這不只是個有趣的故事,更是我們每個人都該學習與自己相處的重要練習。而且也符合我們每一個人的現狀啊!我們每個人也都像雅希葉一樣有著無法說不口的那些不安,但是突然有了可以不用努力或是練習就獲得另一種「勇敢」的能力,在一開始時,真的會不小心就沉淪在裡面,也可以立刻看見嚮往中的自己,也就是不敢成為的自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">當然這一切使雅希葉振奮,就像上癮是一樣的,時間久了,很快地就會忘了自己原本的樣子。因為「倒影」其實就是所謂的「#人格面具」(就是現在所謂的人設),當我們經營人格面具越是完美時,就更難,或是不願意脫下這層人格面具的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">要能夠從「癮」中辬別現實和虛幻不是一件簡單的事,更何況是將它戒掉。但雅希葉雖然擔小卻能果斷找出自己的倒影——也就是陰影的部份,並與它正面對決談合,也令人感到雅希葉的毅力和決心不是說說而已呢!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">每個人都有陰影,也就是不想讓人碰觸、被發現的內心的某種不好,但它終究是我們的一部份,如果我們越是去隱藏,越是是逃避,最後只會讓自己變得更極端,甚至走向毀滅之路。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雅希葉就為我們做了很好的示範練習,她察覺到了自己已經被「倒影」控制,且決定找回自己的自主權。當她發現原來自己的樣子就很美好的,她不再感到那麼沒自信。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而剛才我說「陰影」也是我們的一部份,如果我們越是去隱藏,越是是逃避,最後只會讓自己變得更極端,我們要練習的是——聆聽它並和它一起坦然的相處。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">陰影並非一無是處,就像膽小如果是你一直以來的陰影,那麼你需要與他一起合作,讓膽小帶著你,也讓你感受如何拿捏平衡,那麼膽小的問題雖然不會馬上被解決,但是你已經在練習的路上了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">有一句話浮士德是這樣說的——太初有行</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">。意是什麼呢?就是行為絕不是發明來的,它們是實踐來的。與大家分享,希望讓每一個的早晨從這裡開始。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《#雅希葉的倒影》</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">是一本寫給我們大人的書,裡面有太多要告訴我們的事了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">人生感覺很長,但其實不然,希望在未來的每一天,我們也都能像雅希葉一樣,清楚知道自己正在做什麼。即使有陰影也坦然接受它,就像雅希葉最後和「倒影」一起生活的很快樂一樣。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-size: 13pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">希望今天的繪本分享也能讀進你的心裡面,</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%BE%AE%E6%99%A8%E6%99%82%E5%85%89?__eep__=6&__cft__[0]=AZUMD5vWHuudiJfhLVsiC03H82QEsHg0CeWOG4aFyMRfR3ELawM_JsTj_F1Y3f2uf-Voi-Nx0xeK5KhpcoTTpAdMxe0RWTGghovJa_OvYWqpOm7vkj5zu3Y7vKkqKqOm2Gwzt1-Snsyll3Vtvqd2Fw7VlETCMzyHnWO3glBdJfJwMQUaZnpdjm7qhVi332N-Giw&__tn__=R]-R" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #1155cc; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">#微晨時光</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">》</span>用繪本開啟每一天。<span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; white-space-collapse: preserve;">用可以聽的早餐,滋養我們的心靈。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">記得每天都要和我們愛的人說我愛你,謝謝你,別忘記還有一個大大的擁抱喔!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">在上班途中的朋友,路上小心。正在餵寶寶、正在洗奶瓶和正在忙碌的你,辛苦了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="color: #050505; font-size: 12.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">祝福大家每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:<a href="https://reurl.cc/9RXaNn">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</a></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">
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font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">#</span></a><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">咕嚕咕嚕的書店小貓》來開啟我們的一天。</span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 10.5pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">繪本的</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">創作者:吳欣芷,由小典藏出版社出版。吳欣芷的繪本不是我第一次介紹,她總是讓人很期待呢!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">《#咕嚕咕嚕的書店小貓》說的是什麼樣的故事呢?</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">有一隻小黑貓,他來自一個「名貓」家族。奶奶是著名的抓鼠高手,爺爺是享負盛名的無舞者。爸爸和媽媽則是城裡最棒的甜點師傅,連哥哥姐姐也相當投入自己熱愛的工作中。總之整個名貓家族裡的貓都很厲害。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">唯獨只有小黑貓和大家不一樣,小黑貓只喜歡不停不停的看書,不過也因為這樣,讓家族裡的貓很擔心。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">「讀書並不是一種工作」你不如加入機器人設計師的工作吧?</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">「做料理超實用又有趣,廚房裡永遠有一個屬於你的位置。」</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">「我們的樂團超適合你的,你快來吧。」</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">儘管其它的貓都苦勸他不要再讀書了,但小黑貓就不為所動,他常說:「翻開書,總能帶我到達任何地方和成為各種角色。」</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小黑貓很喜歡探索城市,幾乎和他愛看書的程度差不多,因為他在每個不同的地方都可以挖掘到許多好玩又新奇的事物。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">有一天早晨他看見了一間可愛的小書店門外掛著牌子,上面寫著:徵求小幫手。小黑貓興奮的直搖,心想著終於找到專屬的工作了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">「真是太棒了,太適合我了,我好愛書,而且我也好想幫忙。」小黑貓按捺不住的大叫著,也嚇到了身邊的人。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">書店的小女孩見狀就邀請小黑貓進到書店來並向他介紹這是一間兒童書店。也是自家經營好幾代的書店,剛好我們需要一個幫手。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">「哦!剛剛好我有小貓爪,而且我很樂意幫忙。」小黑貓的回答真是可愛極了,要我就立刻用她了。哈。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">於是黑貓就開始了在書店工作的日子,而且什麼事都盡心盡力做到最好,把書店佈置得和家一樣溫馨,連我都好想去。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">最厲害的是小黑貓總是能為每個小朋友找到最適合他們的書,讓他們徜徉在書的世界裡。自從小黑貓來了後,書店就變得超級忙碌,喔不,是超級超級忙碌。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">有一天,和往常一樣的早晨小黑貓一直沒有等到搭去書店的巴士,一旁的小鳥兒們嘰嘰喳喳的說著:「聽說巴士被大雨困住也拋錨了,修理也修不好。」聽到這裡小黑貓也急了,覺得不能只是枯坐著,他決定要利用其它的方式到達書店。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">當他到達書店時差點沒昏倒,因為書店的慘況比他想的還糟糕。原來是消防栓爆掉了,書本們全被噴溼了。湧出的水不停的漫到四處,淹滿整個街道;而書店前也出現了一條無法跨越的河,因此再也沒有任何顧客上門看書了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">就這樣過了好多好多天,小維感傷著說:我們已經被忘記了。」但小黑貓什麼話也沒有說,只是捲成一團安安靜靜的。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">沒想到這個消息傳回了「名貓」家族,大家都知道是時候該他們上場了。媽媽說:「別擔心,需要幫忙時,我們都在,這才是家人啊!快告訴我們需要做的吧!」</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小維想到了一個點子,既然孩子們沒辦法來書店,不好我們把書帶去給他們吧。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">隔天,大家都出發了,分頭出發到城市裡的各個角落,讓孩子可以看到書。當孩子發現有著各式各樣的書,都超級興奮的。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">而且在每本書裡,都塞著一張小紙條和地圖。上面寫著:你的冒險才正要開始!跟著地圖出發尋找更多秘密。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小朋友們照著小紙條裡的地點來了神秘地方,你們猜猜是哪裡?沒錯,就是小維的書店。每個來訪的小朋友都開心的一擁而上,也發現書店看起比以前更美了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">每個人都非常開心,也享受這一切。重要的是孩子們每次翻開書,就能到達那個神秘的地方和成為各種角色。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小黑貓好欣慰,一直很興奮也發出中上最大聲的呼嚕咕嚕喔!看來,小黑貓真的非常的開心呢!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">故事說到這裡就結束了,不過「每次翻開書,就能到達那個神秘的地方和成為各種角色。」這句話卻讓我很有共鳴,因為我也是這樣呢?你呢?</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">我想成長過程中,你一定也有像小黑貓這樣的經驗。有些是你明明喜歡的事,卻因為不得不去迎合別人的眼光,而收起那份喜歡和熱情。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">像是什麼呢?我記得唸書時,我還是很喜歡繪本,不知為何,我就是很愛繪本。而和我同齡的朋友們都喜歡少女漫畫,看她們窩在一起討論著情節,而我卻插不上話確實是有點沮喪,但我就真的看不懂少女漫畫啊!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">一開始,我為了也要和同學一樣,有相同的話題可以聊,我從她們喜愛的漫畫選了一本來看,但一本都還沒有看完,我就投降了,後來一直到今日,我都未再翻閱過少女漫畫。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">因為我實在沒辦法,不過我的同學們也沒有因此就把我視為不可親近的怪人啦,只是她們會知道,有什麼活動會找我,而又有什麼活動就不會主動找我。我覺得那樣也很好,就是一種人際界線吧!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">只是,因為我喜歡的畢竟是小眾,所以就算很喜歡,我也會很刻意的隱瞞其實沒那麼喜歡它啦,只是無聊打發時間而已。但只有自己知道,自己有多麼的寶貝啊!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">不知道你是否也有這樣的經歷呢?我相信一定是有的,來吧,在這樣,我們都不要不好意思吧!好嗎?如果你願意,我期待收到你的回覆喔!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">好,我們先回來故事。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小黑貓很幸運,雖然他喜歡的都不是一般人眼中是有未來的,不過家族裡的所有貓都沒有嫌棄它,甚至讓他自由的去探索自己的旅程。這是多令人響往的啊!人生不一定要追求什麼,或是獲得那些名和利,只有有人默默地支持著你的喜歡,那真的就夠了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">在小黑貓順利地在書店做著他找尋很多的夢幻工作後,並非一帆風順,它仍然遇到了不幸,書店毀了,原本絡繹不絕的盛況,已不覆在。原本熱鬧的景像,如今也只剩下他和小唯乾瞪眼。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
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</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">不過,這時出理很溫暖的情節,「名貓」的家人們全都來了,他們不在意「失敗」這件事,沒有為此數落小黑貓,或是落井下石。反而用愛展開了雙臂來協助小黑貓和小唯的困境。這是多少令人動容的事啊,畢竟在這個時代,不被罵就要偷笑了呢!所以我的感受是特別的深啊!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">最後他們焦結了好主意,反而讓還本的經營方式更上一層樓,不只讓上門看書的孩子變多了,也讓書店的規模變得和以前不一樣了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">這場意外,雖然阻隔了孩子與小黑貓之間,但卻也因為這個事件,反而讓大家的距離更加靠近了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">宊然其來的大水來得又快又猛烈,破壞了原本的,習慣的了那些好日子,卻又因破壞有了新的重生,過程當然痛苦且有所擔憂,畢竟這是未知的冒險,但沒想到災難性帶著破壞性的,卻迎來的新生。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">小黑貓和家族的故事也是告訴我們,人生在世,事事難料,不過有時危機是改變一生的轉機,我們就順其自然的應對明天 </p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">《#咕嚕咕嚕的書店小貓》</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">是一本充滿真實和現實主義的故事。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">我們無法預測或改變明天,但可以順著那些我們所看見的去找到可能,即使結局不會太好,但不嘗試就永遠不知道,甚至留少遺憾。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">生活中有沒有是什麼像小黑貓一樣遇到困難,卻慢慢的迎刃而解的呢?非常歡迎你留言與我分享喔!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">或許我們願意重新看待每一次的機會,那麼即使剛開始是一敗徒敗塗地也能跨出滿出泥檸的那一步。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">希望今天的繪本分享也能讀進你的心裡面,《#微晨時光》用繪本開啟每一天,用可以聽的早餐,滋養我們的心靈。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">記得每天都要和我們愛的人說我愛你,謝謝你,別忘記還有一個大大的擁抱喔!</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">在上班途中的朋友,路上小心。正在餵寶寶、正在洗奶瓶和正在忙碌的你,辛苦了。</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;">祝福大家每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿 </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">
</p><p style="margin: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:微微的原創晚安故事</p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">
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</span></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p dir="ltr" style="background-color: #f0f2f5; line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><br /></p></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-21344604833479178862023-09-09T00:51:00.005-07:002023-09-09T00:51:57.922-07:00原來,無法接納和理解孩子是有原因的<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXfy-rM71uAsPrObDkVYeUIlD61Nhi8o5LZ2HgsF7JBI8SZfQObd3XXtfMNvKi2wYuru1nXBn1yyYH4-ZggxpRJbGZadkmwnx16MSCdJTdBM8rQMamXQpc9dHiPsj0mWk2GTyonRBz8AAV3J9bzEqgcyQvynlEY98tkgSvYVRkSvVGL7WPf-pU4x_YqG8/s5184/pexels-nikolay-osmachko-235243.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3456" data-original-width="5184" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXfy-rM71uAsPrObDkVYeUIlD61Nhi8o5LZ2HgsF7JBI8SZfQObd3XXtfMNvKi2wYuru1nXBn1yyYH4-ZggxpRJbGZadkmwnx16MSCdJTdBM8rQMamXQpc9dHiPsj0mWk2GTyonRBz8AAV3J9bzEqgcyQvynlEY98tkgSvYVRkSvVGL7WPf-pU4x_YqG8/w640-h426/pexels-nikolay-osmachko-235243.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span><p></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-e7b31a5d-7fff-8e4d-fdce-0143e88064e7"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">掌握越多的育兒資訊,加入各種育兒社團,反而更加焦慮不安,有時還陷入一種不得不比較的新壓力。我相信大家在育兒的過程中一定也常會有這樣的時刻,育兒比天氣更加難以掌握。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">懷孕時擔心肚子裡的寶寶,孩子出生後擔心他奶喝得不足、排便正不正常,還有沒有呼吸?再大一點擔心他的專注能力、行為,還有與同學、老師的互動。再更大一點,則開始擔心學業、學習程度,戀愛等等。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">總之這種焦慮不安像呼吸一樣,沒有它還不行。這是成為媽媽後附加的另一種修行。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">對於孩子所展現出來的態度、表情或表達,為什麼我們總是很難做到先去接納或是理解呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這個問題讓我思索多年,即便我在教育的現場看過也經歷過很多,但與其一直要理解孩子,我覺得理解自己和了解為何做不到更為重要。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">因為當我們連自己都無法理解也接納自己時,又如何去接納理解孩子呢?但也因為想要更理解孩子,所以我們才能夠覺察自己為何無法接納。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我們長成了現在的我們,並非一、二天的事,是經過多少磨練、經歷和學習才形成現在的「我」。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">所以很多不論是想法觀點、做法、反應都已牢牢刻印在我們的成長歷程裡,這還包括了不同的成長背景與環境的影響。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在這樣的穩固的「我」的中心裡,面對外來的刺激或變動,通常會以反射性的第一直覺去反應,然後試著說服或控制「我」中心以外的變動。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">舉例來說,孩子說我不要寫功課、我不要吃飯、我不要聽你的、你憑什麼管我....等等。這些抗拒和變動,挑戰的不只是我們的理智底限,而是有種要將「我」連根拔起,然而這種快崩坍的不安,無法讓人感到安全。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">於是當中心以外的變動都變成威脅時,我們能夠最快穩住自己的方式就是先評斷、控制和否定,直至一切不再搖搖欲墜。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這也是為什麼面對孩子的反應,我們無法先做到「接納理解」。孩子也因為沒有被讀懂感受而更激動。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">因為理解是一件有風險的事。孩子的反應、拒絕或其它相關的狀況都屬於無法掌握的,而那種無法掌握的感覺是失控的,所以「生氣」的情緒會跑在理性的前面,以致以我們無法做到先接納和理解。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">無法理解也是我們經常對自己做的事,只是我們不自覺,然而無法接納、理解自己,就也無法接納孩子,最後形成一種惡性循環。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">好的,那現在我們將角色對調一下,將接納理解孩子的練習換成接納理解自己。 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">如果我能先接納自己,接納正因孩子的事而感到生氣焦慮不安時,那麼我也更能夠去接納孩子的感覺,然後能夠去理解自己。當然這個練習的過程是很漫長的,有時候還有可能感覺不到。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不過重要的是過程,孩子和我們之間的互動必會產生新的變化,變化通常是往好的方向進行,而不是停滯在原來僵硬的關係裡。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">每一次的練習裡也許感受到的變化是零零散散的,而且常會覺得無法妥善運用在每一次新的狀況或是親子衝突中,可是只要相信孩子和自己,持續練習,真的可以感覺和看見那些變化是持續流動的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">從原本零零碎碎的變得越來越完整,你也會越來越有信心。而某一部份的東西會隨著在每一次的練習當中慢慢的被修剪掉,不是說他們不見了,而是在每一次整合當中,我們的經驗會讓這些獲得的東西越來越完整越來越明確。而當那個時刻來臨時,你一定感受得到。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">如何接納自己、理解孩子呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">1.協助孩子和自己覺察各種情緒和感受,不做任何批判。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">2.陪伴那些感受與之共處,不做任何批判。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">3.試著去辬識那些情緒和感受是什麼,不做任何批判。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">4.練習去承接那些情緒、感覺、感受,不做任何批判。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">5.不強迫孩子或是自己一定要做些什麼來轉移或逃避當下的情緒,因為那樣我們都學不會認識自己的情緒,更別談接納和理解了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">6.一天一點點的練習,就是最大的進步。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">以上並不是一定要達成的目標,而是期盼透過這樣陪伴互動練習能夠豐富彼此的情感和經驗,也能學習覺察、接納彼此。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不開心也是一種健康的情緒和感受,不急著立刻要做些什麼來轉移,只要好好陪伴自己目前的情緒,進而覺察內在的起伏變化。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">生活或是育兒的力不從心是人人皆會遇到的挫折,各種擔憂、煩躁,和失敗感如影隨形也揮之不去是難以避免的情緒感受。這時千萬不要告訴自己別擔心,也不要刻意想要轉移。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">就是——好好陪著自己內在那些真實的感受。先這樣就很好了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">靜心或是深呼吸都是很好的練習,而且沒有時間、場地和費用的限制,我知道大家都很忙,可以利用睡前幾分鐘的時間來練習,睡著了也沒關係。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我就是靜不下來怎麼辧?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">也許妳會有這樣的困惑。對,我懂。因為我也經歷過,或者說我也正在經歷著,那怎麼辦呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我的經驗是千萬不要勉強自己去做,反而造成新的壓力。當任何媒介都無法引起妳的動力時,代表妳的情緒壓力已滿。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">就像洗衣籃裡被塞得滿滿皺皺的衣服那樣,這時我們不用立刻要去把他們一件一件拉出來,摺它或是整理它。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="color: #cc0000; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">只要先鬆動它們就好,先這樣做就很好了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">允許自己也能有情緒。育兒不僅心力耗盡,還有看不見的各種壓力,為了照顧好家庭和孩子,媽媽必須要付出很大的心力,如果無法獲得釋放和被理解,不僅對孩子的成長有影響,對自己也會有影響。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">給自己一段時間,一段不受限制的時間練習好好陪伴自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">Photo by Trần Long</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #4a4a4a; font-family: Roboto, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-weight: 700; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-79276181403969462702023-09-09T00:01:00.006-07:002023-09-09T00:01:25.290-07:00適時的放空,污漬排淨後,讓新的可能如同石片投入湖中泛起新漣漪<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgql0J2LItAaNgbKWSG-CLCC3AmFuERxW2q1kk9tdTf-MkuN11NHx-_GCSvxjiOSZ37IjmnH5985v7pfu6oCUrHzSka9CrX4S-N37aHfA4BM39dcdh7YQd8e1oFiyzVX37DLeC-Sx2UWtidR-j_0cbOZsnMPYuRolxdA6UfarI5v10M3O3TlMTbFKIHs94/s1288/376819701_718234416983630_3048532606720299987_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1288" data-original-width="640" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgql0J2LItAaNgbKWSG-CLCC3AmFuERxW2q1kk9tdTf-MkuN11NHx-_GCSvxjiOSZ37IjmnH5985v7pfu6oCUrHzSka9CrX4S-N37aHfA4BM39dcdh7YQd8e1oFiyzVX37DLeC-Sx2UWtidR-j_0cbOZsnMPYuRolxdA6UfarI5v10M3O3TlMTbFKIHs94/w318-h640/376819701_718234416983630_3048532606720299987_n.jpg" width="318" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /></div><p></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">對於事物,我們總用認知去互動。現在請超越也放棄原有的認知</span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span id="docs-internal-guid-9b260240-7fff-0a37-a5e0-29daf4e185f5"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「適時的放空,排淨後,讓新的可能如同石片投入湖中泛起新漣漪」 </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">大家早安~經過了大大小小的經(折)歷(騰),副作用終於還是沒有比消退啦!還未注射滿一週的療程,我已開始高燒和各種不適了,不過按照醫師和我本人的經驗這樣的不舒服——是超級正常的!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">開始有流感的副作用,會比較辛苦,李小姐辛苦了。小志醫師每回都是如此溫柔的安慰我,還因此幫我直接取消一個我最恐懼的檢查,讓我在苦痛中有了「得救」了的小確幸。只是提著嘔吐袋嘔吐的場面不是那麼唯美,但夠了,只要別再讓我去被用力的被電擊,我心滿意足。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今天是有件事想要和大家分享。希望大家趁著好不容易沒有下雨,但不保證會熱到融化的日子,可以去《#波隆那繪本展》走走逛逛。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">再次聲(發)明(誓),這不是業配喔!這是我本人很喜歡的興趣或行程,感謝在我參觀完展覽後,才被抓回醫院治療,對此我感謝老天爺的安排,雖然難免稍有抱怨。(覺得哪有人這樣的啦!)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">記得以前,學齡前的兒子,對於跟著媽媽參與展覽、音樂會或是講座都充滿興緻,唯獨J,不過我很欣賞他的是「誠實」。還在交往時他都會和我一起參與,婚後除了要省錢,還有一個重大的秘密——那時陪妳去,是因為要追妳啊!(誠實到我無言以對,但也忍不住笑了出來,誰說雙魚浪漫的?)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子是個很感性的小男孩,看舞台音樂劇被劇情感動大哭,久久不能自己、聽街頭藝人表演時,享受聆聽,一聽可以聽上兩個小時不走,隨著音樂的起伏,兒子也融入自己的情緒,後來我們還買了那位街頭藝人的薩克斯風音樂創作集。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">看畫展時,兒子對畫裡的人物和情境也總是有自己想法和感受,就像他很喜歡「#孟克」,兒子說:「我覺得孟克有很多很想說的話,只不過我還是無法從畫中理解。好可惜,我還來不及認識他,他就不在這世界上了。」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">一個小小孩能夠不在展廳裡像風呼嘯來去,我已經很感謝了,而他又能真心享受於畫作和作品的真心,更是讓讓我感動和汗顏。(想想我3、4歲時在做什麼?好像還在和手足吵架,然後被罰跪,再和好吧?) </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不過,我很清楚,那時兒子的世界仍在天馬行空中揮灑著自己的詩意,當他越來越大經過社會的慢慢洗禮後,他的想法和喜好一定會變,也會越來越明確,和媽媽是否還願意一起有著同樣的「興趣」是一定不會有的,說不定也不喜歡了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">沒想到當這次我問他要不要和我與L一起去《#波隆那繪本展》時,我說不去也沒關係,爸比可以帶你去打球。但他竟一口答應了,我還和他確認了無數次呢。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這著實嚇了我一跳,這個蹦蹦跳跳的小子應該不會在展場中,如風似的飄轉來去吧?我心裡有了一點小疑問。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">和L、兒子一起到了《#波隆那繪本展》,我真是開心極了,但我也和L說了一件很抱歉的事,希望她能理解,那就是當我正在畫作裡時,我無法同時聊天,所以千萬別以為我不開心。還好L對於欣賞畫作也有同樣的想法,真是太棒了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">接下來就是兒子欣賞畫作的專屬流程了,大家聽好了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子先是將展場裡的紀念章都先集滿,再去看他喜歡的畫,接著再看其它的畫。他還能靜心欣賞他喜愛的畫,我感到安慰。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">因為我原本內心的小劇場會是:「看完了嗎?我看完了,什麼時候可以走。」我也以為,我會需要一直回覆他:「好,等一下,等我們看完。」你說,我能不感謝這一天和兒子嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">當他都看完了,他告訴我:「媽咪,我不想只看畫,我想聽作者創作的想法」哇!兒子,我應該沒聽錯你說的話吧,我幾乎都忘了有導覽解說這個部份,當然我們也輪流聽著創作者的故事,而且意猶未盡。但唯一讓我有些小小微詞的是:兒子都只讓我聽一次!!!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這次的《#波隆那無字繪本展》的作品真的都難以取捨,而且我們 #臺灣 就有八名插畫家入選喔!《#波隆那無字繪本展》等同於繪畫界的奧斯卡獎,那份榮耀是創作者的心血,希望大家有機會一起手牽手去欣賞唷!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">難以取捨的作品中,尤對一副創作《#污漬》難以忘懷一直到現在,她存在心中有很深刻的觸動。只是非常可惜,作者並未授權周邊商品,否則我一定要收藏,就像去年《2022藝術博覽會》我也遇到了喜歡的創作風格的畫家和雕刻家。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">好在,《污漬》有收錄在展本中可以收藏,所以更顯珍貴啊!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《#污漬》印入你眼簾的盡是藍、灰、紫、白的色調,有些沉重也有些憂鬱,但我卻對她有種好像「被釋放」了的輕盈感,和也許被不理解的經歷和不擅表達的各種感受。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《#污漬》的創作者是義大利的Giulia Maria BGelli 茱莉婭.瑪麗亞.貝利,她擅長將女性私密的、不好說的畫成圖像,當中也有些是她自己的小故事,以《污漬》為名,也令我好奇想著,是否也代表著某著焦慮呢?而讓人感到骯髒的污漬,卻讓創作者以像閃著自身光芒的的寶石般呈現,而像切割面的形也像是隨時可變動的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">焦慮不安,有時真的如影隨行,現在的你是否也是這樣,只有自己看得見呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">希望大家都能在《#波隆那繪本展》遇見全新的自己,找回更多平靜。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">急著和我分享感受的兒子最喜歡的創作是《#小怪獸》由葡萄牙Catarina Gomes卡塔里娜.戈梅斯創作,她的創作風格和兒子的風格真的非常像(抱歉,我知道這樣對作者很失禮),不過我想這也是他會喜歡的原因之一,也記得兒子的藝術老師曾說過他的畫不制式,很有自己獨特的風格。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">至於也愛看展的L,我沒有問她最喜歡的創作家和作品是什麼,因為我覺得有時那份感動,不是在參觀完了就能有答案的。而且問了,就好像有種「一定」要給出什麼答案的壓迫感,這樣就不是享受了。不過我知道在L的心裡,一定也起了漣漪。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">臺灣創作家薛慧瑩的《#夢遊》的創作起點也相當令人感動,且耗時多年才完成此作品,我們真的好幸運!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">總之有太多——有故事的作品,等著你去感受,希望我的真心分享,能夠觸動你內心的某一個角落,那麼我也會感到很開心的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">《#波隆那繪本展》展期只到明天了,大家要抓緊把握喔!已經去過的朋友們,期待你們也與我分享。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">照片是作品《#我們》的其中一個「女孩」,我很喜歡,覺得在寒冷的自己的世界裡,我和我自己一起擁抱。</span></p><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px; text-align: left;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div></span></div><p><br /> </p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-74120684538240924712023-09-08T23:59:00.002-07:002023-09-08T23:59:15.219-07:00真的不是月亮惹的禍<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw-nwgI48vraiaViWNcLo_pl27yTd85h2i_eIQnjlR9iMCVmoeHaAmDfF32sS-6h3TZwz_wVN7k3rySrmnilW46Z3shDQkSdnwNUd1W9kTN_hYUZ-estawVVgOkVgbA2x0fHnNQe1XTm19OC9KOdnB1nkkMtE2P8YYHqiFx-dPTLUMtuFymWXb2eG0t7I/s4272/pexels-pixabay-266679.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2848" data-original-width="4272" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjw-nwgI48vraiaViWNcLo_pl27yTd85h2i_eIQnjlR9iMCVmoeHaAmDfF32sS-6h3TZwz_wVN7k3rySrmnilW46Z3shDQkSdnwNUd1W9kTN_hYUZ-estawVVgOkVgbA2x0fHnNQe1XTm19OC9KOdnB1nkkMtE2P8YYHqiFx-dPTLUMtuFymWXb2eG0t7I/w640-h426/pexels-pixabay-266679.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「小心跌倒、小心跌倒、小心跌倒,在我的病床上就掛了三個!」</span><p></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-de5107a5-7fff-f54a-37ac-a12af10446d9"><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這次發病的狀況確實比較差,除了打完免疫球藥的副作,嘔吐的次數也不尋常。明明一天三顆嘔吐藥隨侍,但依然未見停過,這和以往不同。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">加上浴室裡的空間狹小要將靜脈儀器推進推出實為不易之事,再者我的腿無力久站,於是住進幾天,就跌撞了好多次。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">現在因為眼前一片黑,又天旋地轉要躺下才能休息,所以緊急醫師我的狀況。沒想到大半夜的被連人帶床推去做頭部斷層掃描,頭上還放了像水母似的冰敷袋,沒多久就被快速送至電腦斷層掃描處檢查。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">回病房後,就完全被困在我的小床裡,不得自行下床,避免造成傷害。然後如厠時也要二人一前一後的跟著拉著,真是不習慣也抱歉。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">但後來還了我好多清白,在舊病中的設備中,全都不符合像我這麼行動不便的病患啊,所以他們似乎有了想法,希望下次再來時能有些改變。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">你們或許會覺得奇怪,這哪有什麼好不方便的,不就是如厠嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不,像我們這種神經受損者,做任何你們認為理所當然的小事,對我們而言是辛苦的。例如:我們連自己吃飯舉筷都會快扭傷似的,而擦便便時更是難上加難,穿脫衣物更是癈力,需要人幫忙,所以環境就顯得相當重要了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">目前還不能睡,要再觀察,才能讓我睡。而斷層報告又要再等明日才知知曉了.</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今晚所有醫護人員都辛苦你們了,謝謝你照顧我。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">Photo by Pexels</span></p><div><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px; white-space-collapse: collapse;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p></span></div></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-48922502130191313442023-09-08T23:57:00.005-07:002023-09-08T23:57:26.175-07:00成為女英雄是需要經過一次又一次的試煉,不是打敗了什麼,而是和每個當下的自己在一起並接納<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8NCNNj7wN08hteYNp9zh6XOazOCbpbY6YyOgAYUCDOp52C__5DAwTuxCbIszGk9u9fxrCGeSGBRjq5VG2qVS3wynRdFWJxBNfo1VTYizRSJyaPtXZA-CfadVZ0RsXqCTvtVBZxCc850p71oHuVyryBzmlu3e5B7udrUi8vqMkjKBq1Qy6E4Iv9imREL4/s1420/375590398_717267340413671_87943275770922174_n.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1420" data-original-width="640" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8NCNNj7wN08hteYNp9zh6XOazOCbpbY6YyOgAYUCDOp52C__5DAwTuxCbIszGk9u9fxrCGeSGBRjq5VG2qVS3wynRdFWJxBNfo1VTYizRSJyaPtXZA-CfadVZ0RsXqCTvtVBZxCc850p71oHuVyryBzmlu3e5B7udrUi8vqMkjKBq1Qy6E4Iv9imREL4/w288-h640/375590398_717267340413671_87943275770922174_n.jpg" width="288" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-e959374b-7fff-2610-c56e-252a941b4818"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">每次注射完免疫球蛋白的副作用不一,這並不叫人期待;反而有種「挫咧等」的恐懼感,記得五月份剛注射完後,我雙眼看不見,只剩下微暗的影像,我驚慌失措,緊抓著人就問,一直到主治醫師來親自講解原因。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">【免疫球蛋白】</span><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">它是一種從上千獻血者所捐獻的</span><a href="https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E8%A1%80%E6%B5%86" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #3366cc; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">血漿</span></a><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">中提取出來的,就如同輸血一樣,故會有過敏反應,但過敏反應有許多種,加上我正值發病期,所以正與負一切在體中起了很混亂的效用,會有種不進反退的感覺,像是上次視神經影響你的視力。(感謝所有捐血者。)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">嗯,明白了,因為太嚇人。所以每次打都會有不同的過敏反應要去面對嗎?我問。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">嗯,基本上是這樣說沒錯。醫師推了推眼鏡,點著頭說。讓我誤以為他是柯南準備拿出麻醉槍。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我好像也只能說:好吧,因為也沒有其它的特效藥,為了治療現狀只能忍受副作用,只是副作用維持了一個多月,真叫人難以安心。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而這次剛注射第一夜後,對於神經系統並沒有太快的改善,大腿的肌力反而變得更加弱,讓我行動緩上加緩。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">目前腿的評估分數是4分,離身心殘障申請核準的3只差一分,我真不知道該哭還是該笑,而腳踝的分數是0分,也難怪我常跌倒,因為我無法像一般人一樣抬起腳來往前跨步。(真相終於大白)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #202122; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">雙手的握力檢測在六月份時,右手肌力3.3公斤,左手3.5公斤;而昨日的右手肌力6.6公斤/左手2.6公斤,時進時退又難以理解的數據,不過這也支應我在穿脫衣服、洗澡的及打字上困難之處。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">之前兒子陪我一起參加座談教學時,他對於測量儀器很好奇,可能是漫威夢一時在心中泛起層層漣漪,所以躍躍一試的他,測得了比我好很多的成績,雙手皆有10公斤的握力,為此他興奮不已,似乎是認為離拯救世界又更近一步了嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">孩子在場,孩子的天真的可愛,緩和了許多緊張和不能言喻的氣氛,大家都圍繞著他的夢想,談得不亦樂乎,孩子也好像把醫病會診會當成了他的舞台,超級可愛的模樣,一想到就忍不住嘴角上揚。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">不過你知道嗎?「 #漫威英雄」是實實在在有必要存在的非真實英雄,你一定很好奇,離題未免也太遠了,不,雖然離題,但對於孩子的教育,你一定覺得像挖到寶藏般要珍藏。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子像是有股信心,又像是心意已決且嚴肅地告訴我:「媽咪,我跟你說,我什麼時候開始賺錢?」我一臉疑惑著問:「怎麼突然這麼問?發生什麼事情了嗎?」</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">兒子很堅定地說:「因為我要為將來做準備,我以後要去唸『麻省理工』!!!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「麻省理工?你知道那是什麼東西嗎?你知道那是做什麼的嗎?」兒子的抱負實在太驚人了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「當然知道啊!是美國第一名的大學啊!我以後要唸的學校,懂嗎?」我依舊困惑在兒子的答覆中,百思不得其解,並問為什麼?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「因為 #鋼鐵人 就是唸麻省理工的啊!」我的天啊!現實和電影混淆了。不過換個角度想,兒子的志願令大部份的家長應該算是充滿欣慰。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「好好好,你自己決定就好。我會祝福你的,希望你順順利利的。」當媽的一定要送上最好的祝福啊!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「太好了,這樣子,我以後就是鋼鐵人的學弟了,我一定要好好唸書。」對不起,當時我實在忍不住笑出來,覺得兒子好可愛唷!好愛好愛他。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">好,回到正題。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">昨日的頭部的MRI結果出爐,醫師比我還興奮地說:「目前看起來都沒事,都很好,是個健康年輕的大腦,不過......是否妳擔心如遇每次發病就有短期失憶和認知的狀況,會不會造成慢性傷害的,這個部份就也......,不過我們就持續追蹤吧!」醫師的語氣瞬間彈出興奮軌道,而我快被甩出了軌道外。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而關於我的「認知障礙功能檢測」的分數未達標準,意思就是蠻差的,也許需要會診其它科別的醫師做詳盡的檢查.........。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">跌倒造成的輕微腦震盪,和頭上的外傷,今日似乎又往之前「貓熊」狀的樣子邁進,不過因為有過經驗,又加上MRI的結果是好的,所以不是太擔心,只是又會「被」疑似家暴好一陣子。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">一下子太多訊息量,我還來不及好好吸收,就不刪不減全部接收,愣愣地坐在病床上,想著每發病一次就像在腦部畫上正字,累積久了就會有損傷,心裡期盼著不要,也認為自己除了身體復健之外,腦部的復健也是很認真在做的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">「不可以!不可以!」這件事不可以發生!我心裡向症狀強烈表達著我的堅決。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">下午復健師來看我也更正我在一些網路上尋找的運動細節,還有要注意的保護的地方,另外更重要的是學到了。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我的0分沒力腳踝在行走前,有時會瞬間卡住,這時只有4分的大腿也遠水救不了近火,於是膝蓋就會使出全力,Hold住整隻搖搖欲墜腿,不讓身體跌倒。這時膝蓋就會承受太大的,也用不對的姿勢去應對,所以出了一些功課要我做,至少要保護能保護到的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">為了好,我一定會遵守復健師教的,希望自己的行走至少正常,我已心滿意足。但又說回來,只要免疫又發動攻擊,一切又會歸零啊!(復健師一定想罵人!)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">對了對抗罕病,我一直沒辦法好好工作,家庭經濟當然不可能因此有問題,說沒有是騙人的,雖然感覺上就是不太好樣子,但也還是有那麼點算不錯的地方,因為我知道,我們正和我們自己在一起,就在這裡,而且還有你們。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">該怎麼說呢?我也會傷心難過,被醫師宣告不好消息時我也會覺得人生無望,籌不出醫藥費時也著急地想哭,頭髮快掉光了,會照鏡子流淚。如果兒子的創傷沒有好,也失去了我們與制度內二年內的正義,我一定也會傷心不捨,但並非在所有方面都如此如此地糟糕。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">這幾天兒子在電話裡的口氣,真是叫我心疼,但身為媽媽那道平衡的尺要拿揑好,有時也覺得好難。#當父母真的無可救藥_歡笑悲傷全因為孩子。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">生活的真相——就是有時把你整得半死,有時又讓你飄到空中,總之生活就像一陣龍捲風,被捲到哪裡不知道。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">但也許我們可以像《 #綠野仙蹤》裡的桃樂斯和托托一樣,永遠不知道該怎麼做,但也還是有某個人事物出現可以選擇的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">至於開心和幸福,我們隨時可以決定,總不能等到生活不再艱難再決定快樂,就如同我之前說的,天要打雷下雨,我們總不能要天不可以打雷下雨吧!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我正因為嘔吐和胃痛帶來不適而傷心哭著,同時又為倒數出院回家的日子感到欣慰,就是如此矛盾,而這就是現實啊!(走投無路的感覺,並非真的走頭無路。)</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">今天有不好的心情,也有還算可以的心情,但更多的是想念的心情。明天不知道會如何,就再說吧!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">那你們呢?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">謝謝大家昨日都沒有跳過治療日記的文章,還熱情與我HIGH FVIE,今天希望你們也不要跳過心情文章,期待大家的回應(陪孤獨病人聊聊)喔! </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">#謝謝大家給我的資訊_基本上我會閱讀完畢的</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">照片中的小故事:</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">那天參與《波隆那繪本展》在許願燈樹上看到一張許願卡,覺得太可愛不拍不行,我想許願的孩子當時是否冒著生命的危險,如此勇敢的寫下此願望,我想當時的心情一定是焦慮+期待。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">如果可以,我也希望我的爸爸給我零用錢,不用太多,只要10000元。棒~</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><br /><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span face="Arial, sans-serif" style="font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-35600501080414218932023-09-06T08:11:00.003-07:002023-09-06T08:11:21.985-07:00之所以寫,也是面對脆弱的態度與能力<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz527nBcaiKdernV-0bYXnfQcq5kUdQ7p9N4Rl1djAusaNa1KIiSFsA8FE3YBZo4IHoUrHyGLTrgmOv7ZMu0QC7XFBVNV2nBRNSmhpYcOpW77o-Hi1MY4YUFF5_8s1SYfasuk0U8wQozGmrF__Y8cmUK4w_9a-zc_WOIArt6BJoXxEqi8geis4iaStz78/s4256/pexels-oleksandr-p-1172000.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2832" data-original-width="4256" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz527nBcaiKdernV-0bYXnfQcq5kUdQ7p9N4Rl1djAusaNa1KIiSFsA8FE3YBZo4IHoUrHyGLTrgmOv7ZMu0QC7XFBVNV2nBRNSmhpYcOpW77o-Hi1MY4YUFF5_8s1SYfasuk0U8wQozGmrF__Y8cmUK4w_9a-zc_WOIArt6BJoXxEqi8geis4iaStz78/w640-h426/pexels-oleksandr-p-1172000.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">「一成不變的本質或本性皆不具任何意義,重點在於「那對我而言是什麼?」</span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">請容我先說聲不好意思,如果這段治療日子裡的相關心情貼文,引起您的厭煩或不悅,請您放寬心,暫時先跳過即可,我絕對不會難過或生氣的,因為類似的貼文確實會讓人感到有些悶吧!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">生病和治療是痛苦且孤獨的,關於自身的分享,其實我也不是全然不介意,這我之前也有說過,但是如果因為自己的分享能對一些人有些觸動或幫助的話,我很樂意的,也期待你們與我分享。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我的分享,我想這是一種由外向在的探索自我(陰影)旅程,跟我許久的讀者都知道,在我的粉專中不會有幸福美滿的人設,基本上都是面對自己很真實(寫實)的生活分享。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">人不能只要求自己永遠正能量,那只會耗損更多心力,且越來越危險。面對自我和陰影,我覺得千萬不能告訴自己「打敗它」,就如同我目前的狀況一樣。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那是不可能用打敗或是轉移的方式去抵消的,這也能用許多事物上,如果讀者理解我說的,就知道我想表達的不是「不要怕、打敗它」那樣的方法。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">面對它後,還需要很多,或是更多的時間去否試、厭惡,再來才是接納,然後和「它」重新認識並相處,不過不是被它臣服,也不是被它吞噬。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">就像 #歐文亞隆《#成為我自己》裡也曾說:我們雖然無逃於死亡的現實,卻可在死亡的概念裡找到生機。人生既然只活一次,就要活得充實,要死,也要死得盡量少有遺憾。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">伊莉莎白,庫伯勒羅斯《論死亡與臨終》臨終五階段論:否認,憤怒,討價還價,憂鬱,接受。雖然現在提到死亡或許仍早仍困惑,不過我們永遠猜不到下一刻會發生什麼事;不論我們走到人生的哪一階段,都是需要非~常~長的時間去感受和接納的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">如果你身邊也有親友處於不安困惑裡,請不要苛責他們,就當自己是個毛茸茸的大玩偶,用力地給予抱抱和靜靜陪伴。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">所以在固定治療期間依身體能力的狀況,我會在痛且平靜中找到至少平衡的時間點,記錄治療的近況,為自己留念,也寫給長大後的兒子。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">希望「生病的媽媽」不是只是兒子唯一擁有的,希望兒子也能有另一個「會哭會笑、會害怕、會任性、會逃避、又膽小又愛哭,也會因為無法自我實現而沮喪,最後也還是會勇敢面對」的真實媽媽。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">而不是靠著以「堅強」為人格面具過著給別人看的人生的媽媽。 (所以,祖先生請您不要在任意妄為取走別人辛辛苦苦的心血了。拜託了。)</span></p><blockquote class="lexical__quote" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; border-left: 5px solid var(--gray-4); box-sizing: border-box; color: var(--gray-2); font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: 1.85em; margin: 30px 0px 30px 20px; outline: 0px; padding-left: 24px; transition-duration: 0.3s; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;">因為不論是誰,我們都不是神!我們是人啊!</span></span></blockquote><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">再來就是有一種像是很想這麼做的想法吧!讓怎麼說呢?我是資深罕病患者,且要長期抗戰,雖然心裡知道,但當真正要面對時,總還是會恐懼,畢竟沒有一項治療是令人享受的。又加上病情每次來得如此不一致,有時安靜得無人察覺,有時又來勢洶洶,無論是哪種,都讓人無法喜愛。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不過勇敢這件事並不是天生的,是不得不且有選擇的,至少對我而言是這樣。所以如果以我資深資歷的分享中,能夠讓也和我有相同經歷或感受的你能夠有相伴的感覺,我會很開心的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">且如果有人願意願你(我)一起在這裡聊聊,我想陪伴的力量會更大。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我知道有人一定做得到「克服」而且成功,但不代表所有人也一定會,不過一定會有某個契機,我就是修行沒麼好的那一位,沒辦法馬上克服成功。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">有時我也在常在想,因為光是病症就完全不同了啊!不用太在意自己做不到,我要做的其實很簡單,也是我一直以來很膽怯的——自我揭露脆弱。不過,我現正在做了呢!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">大約五年了吧,五年來都是我一個人住院治療不適,不是抱怨,即便現在,我仍然想要這麼做。因為自己生病這件事實在太造成家庭不論是經濟或是生活中的困擾了,如果我能夠至少自己應付自己,至少也是對家庭的一種幫忙。只不過最近也許是時間久了,心裡突然冒出也想有人可以陪伴的感受是蠻意外的。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我想起之前因為J不放心,所以會公司醫院二頭跑的照顧我,餵我吃飯,幫我換新的尿布,但這些事同事是不知情的,不過就有一位同事直接在臉書上沒有指名道姓,卻把J描述得清楚,認為J是薪水小偷之類的,那文字能感受他真的對J很憤怒,而我也很難過,雖然很想跟他說明他看到的並非真相。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">但J就是有辦法調節自己,即使他也不開心被誤會。但他覺得那只是他的詮釋並不是真的。公司的責任制,他總是做過超過時數,並且經常加班,所以他問心無愧。這樣的心態也是我該學習的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這次也是很突然被告知住院,還來不及和兒子與J親自說再見,雖然也不是第一次生病,但心裡是真的不舒服的,最受影響的當然還是J和兒子。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">兒子很難過,在電話雖然忍著想哭,還有又要被爸比(我住院,其實J的心情也會大受影響)不理解的心情,但他還是很勇敢去面對。對於兒子除了心疼也是有種無可奈何的難過。不過我還是得和自己說——這也是成長的必經之路。只是不知道為什麼,這樣告訴自己時,淚水整個止不住啊。(兒子的個體化旅程這麼早就開始?)</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">#莎士比亞《馬克白》中主角所講的那一段話:生命呀!只不過是一個行走的影子,一個舞台上的戲子,一時昂首闊步,一時唉聲嘆氣,不一會兒就沒了聲息。好貼切,卻也好可怕。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">所以我真的也不想「不一會兒就沒了聲息」,那該如何做呢?刷存在感嗎?哈哈哈。當然不是,是努力過好就算很不好的日子,對吧!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">昨天頭痛欲裂,也嘔吐得厲害,是副作用,所以別擔心。只是發生了小插曲,因為嘔吐站得太久,我這「柔弱」的身體又跌倒了,又撞了個大包,且勞煩好多人來救我,只是一點也不浪漫啦!因為褲頭被緊緊拉起,實在很痛。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">後來護理人員在我的病床裝了「智慧床墊」就是一離開床就會廣播——請等護理師不要自己下床。好先進,但會不會太麻煩護理師了,畢竟他們都已經很忙了。後來和她們討論,在睡前使用,平常暫不用,否則會一直聽到那則有壓力的廣播。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">每當發病期間,都是很不同的狀況,「神經系統」是個調皮鬼,有時會攻繫的的視神經讓我看不清楚,有時也攻擊我的腦部、身體臟器等,我最害怕的是提早失智,我常常無法完整思考,甚至忘了許多生活中的用詞。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">例如:杯子、手機、沙發以人名等,我就是講不出來,連發生的事都會忘得一乾二淨,這讓我相當害怕相當不安。醫師說有可能是週邊神經的影響,但如果是這樣我也擔心,長期都是如此的話,那麼我害怕是否會變成真的呢?</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">還有一件令人難以啟齒的事,就是神經無法掌握肌肉,所以尿失禁讓我很沮喪,雖然只有發生一次,但每當要睡著時,我還是很擔心。(呼!總算說出來了,喂!不可以笑。)</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">醫師也有些擔心,讓我做了MRI核磁共振檢查腦部是否有病變,又打了顯影劑,讓我有些緊張,因為今年才因左月疑似骨癌的問題也做了MRI,我擔心二者相臨太近會造成什麼傷害,還好護理人員跟我打包票不會,除非是三天以內做了二次。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">目前就靜待檢查結果,不過也是令人坐立難安,而醫師也另外安排了認知功能障礙檢測,要看看實際狀況為何。今天來了三位復健師來協助我復建,我才發現自己真的心有餘而力不足啊。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在家我也會做簡易的居家運動和氣功,但每個簡單的動作,我都做不好,頂多只能二、三個就氣喘吁吁了,不過我還是沒有放棄,只是常有乾脆放棄的念頭就是了。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">尤其是腳完全無力,幾乎用身體其它部位代償。而神經反射仍然一樣,好多年了,都沒再回來過,其實好想念他的跳動啊!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我還是吃了很多藥,吃到都胃潰瘍了,而且還多好多藥是針對副作用的,根本不針對症狀本身,這真是讓我無以好好心平氣和的去接受啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">人類並非生活在一個預先設計好的宇宙,那不可能。因此,#每個人都應該是自己的創作者,#創作自己的生活,也能有所選擇與決定行動。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這樣的自由我想會產生極大的焦慮和矛盾,因此許多人寧願擁抱神明或獨裁者,交出沉重的負擔。如果我們是自己所經歷一切事物,成為「無可爭議的創作者」,那麼一切似乎就能迎刃而解,也說不一定。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這次確要延後出院了,因為要做好多檢查和評估,雖然心不甘情不願也還是會照(多麼誠實),但我要想辦法好好安撫我那二個兒子了。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你們不厭其煩讀完我的文字,而沒有選擇跳過,我真的感謝。如果你有全部看完,請跟我來個High fvie吧!順便讓我更加認識你。(拜託,一定要,別害羞。)</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">放心,我還是會好好的出院和大家在線上見的。等我吧!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">照片日常</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipddAVJ41WIbIF-orSpKRTvMtgR4RF98VSPicQamfKVuyup16ybVIIbiKQkgtLWnxvGfy9SU0kAZ5R970L0RtIw-qtnr8t7e41yDH2XxdVTvNFg5nxilAVJeET57HuvCBoxvsLiO0EJ8wSL01v_K3KUmgoX3_5kQ7O-o-3ZHMw-L8EbYumIdUiDQNq3OY/s960/375311330_716766393797099_3701491453746761547_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="788" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEipddAVJ41WIbIF-orSpKRTvMtgR4RF98VSPicQamfKVuyup16ybVIIbiKQkgtLWnxvGfy9SU0kAZ5R970L0RtIw-qtnr8t7e41yDH2XxdVTvNFg5nxilAVJeET57HuvCBoxvsLiO0EJ8wSL01v_K3KUmgoX3_5kQ7O-o-3ZHMw-L8EbYumIdUiDQNq3OY/w526-h640/375311330_716766393797099_3701491453746761547_n.jpg" width="526" /></a></div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br /></p><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.8px;">附上住院東撞一下西撞一下的日常,哭過的泡泡眼感覺消了很多,我的微笑應該看得出來吧。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 0.8px;">我的小志醫師有開喜療妥讓我擦,希望快快好</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-71937124604662830762023-09-04T20:36:00.006-07:002023-09-04T20:36:27.880-07:00有時就是要靜觀其變,以結果論的方式才能看出對與錯<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy5wJJrYWvBTX64GGFgkwwns7fsnS6R9AtcBzW6SpH7qy62hERyRhqRiS9kgYtPVsVdD8pNkjofQaBfi5KQOYWtz7XO9wEnNYBEbVatu-b8unfUOQUkFIxZhGZAY9RRfWRKJclRd7vtQiBwmZS1KIey1xwtDhKH9qJXOqUWMez05ErF32U5a2Rxnn9CKk/s2048/372616606_715819543891784_8667626438342092190_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1155" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgy5wJJrYWvBTX64GGFgkwwns7fsnS6R9AtcBzW6SpH7qy62hERyRhqRiS9kgYtPVsVdD8pNkjofQaBfi5KQOYWtz7XO9wEnNYBEbVatu-b8unfUOQUkFIxZhGZAY9RRfWRKJclRd7vtQiBwmZS1KIey1xwtDhKH9qJXOqUWMez05ErF32U5a2Rxnn9CKk/w360-h640/372616606_715819543891784_8667626438342092190_n.jpg" width="360" /></a></div><br /> <span style="background-color: white; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em;">有時當事人的感覺會較準,對吧?我覺得入針處腫脹也痛,詢問濕潤,布膠也不黏的感覺是正常嗎?</span><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">夜間的護理師,他嚴肅回覆我是正常,也用手壓了壓,並說血會回流,等等就會好,要我別擔心,趕快睡覺。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">於是我小心翼翼地睡下,即使那個痛感一直持續著,但也就只好先忍著了。但潮濕感明顯,手越來越紅腫,血也緩緩滲出,我想就這就不對勁了吧!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">最後血流成河,衣服,床單無ㄧ倖免。半夜弄得人仰馬翻,🤧</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">於是所有流程全部再來一遍。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">照片,請斟酌關觀看。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/8940174215217202502/1643357591238424449#" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-16433575912384244492023-09-03T11:55:00.007-07:002023-09-04T10:15:10.833-07:00不是公主,仍奮力揮舞著床單披上被單等待著未知的一切 <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnPaU9cYNHeLgS4X2Mp6xjR16kWQH9ANSYmUm7Kwq_2Z4w02sYvBexFrxm6JaBIlC94TeSAJDH3pAyrV8QQIfwbq0JVHzdrAbknVfQntkPklY8dqKZ8zodK8tEYJB_t-cMNVgDSuKsoVbKb_j6r8RUmVdBVLNzc2EneX4j38n2PSkNYSG193itBnfePes/s1420/374694776_715736830566722_4355030026077433460_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1420" data-original-width="640" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnPaU9cYNHeLgS4X2Mp6xjR16kWQH9ANSYmUm7Kwq_2Z4w02sYvBexFrxm6JaBIlC94TeSAJDH3pAyrV8QQIfwbq0JVHzdrAbknVfQntkPklY8dqKZ8zodK8tEYJB_t-cMNVgDSuKsoVbKb_j6r8RUmVdBVLNzc2EneX4j38n2PSkNYSG193itBnfePes/w288-h640/374694776_715736830566722_4355030026077433460_n.jpg" width="288" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r x1vvkbs xtlvy1s x126k92a" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; margin: 0.5em 0px 0px; overflow-wrap: break-word; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不是公主,仍奮力揮舞著床單披上被單等待著未知的一切 </span></p><blockquote class="lexical__quote" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; border-left: 5px solid var(--gray-4); box-sizing: border-box; color: var(--gray-2); font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; line-height: 1.85em; margin: 30px 0px 30px 20px; outline: 0px; padding-left: 24px; transition-duration: 0.3s; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="font-size: small;"> 「獨角獸獨居在一座淡紫色的森林中。她是最後的獨角獸。」——《最後的獨角獸》</span></span></blockquote><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">但,她不是獨角獸,她獨自居住在四處都是像草原色系的帷幕裡,四四方方的空間和滴滴嘟嘟有規率聲響的機器是唯一有聲的伴。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">她並不知道自己的身軀已經比實際年齡高了很多,尤其是在用了那麼多藥物後,也不再擁有無憂無慮的期待,倒像是認命也像是只能就麼做的態度。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">雖然如此,但她的心仍然有如明鏡,清楚知道自己的期盼是什麼,只是無奈她的行動已不如前輕盈靈巧,連優雅也變得不自然,因為總是要刻意,才能不讓人難為情。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">她像個新生兒一樣,小聲得哭了一陣子,因那支名為20號的粗針,在她的手臂上進進出出仍找不到血管,或是找到了,但血管調皮的往下沉,於是同樣的事又得全部重來。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">她數著雙手的針疤和貼布,覺得自己像個未完成的木乃伊,隨後又接上了呼吸器,因為呼吸變得吃力;她想起上次做的肺功能檢查沒有通過,又擔心著陰晴不定的免疫大王領軍攻擊,於是有點害怕。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">她的心情仍然不安,但勉強擠得出笑容面對來訪的醫護人員,她的心裡想著這一次的藥不知道在她的體內又會有怎樣的變化? </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">還來不及想,腹部攪痛的副作用就先來表明身份了,而頭痛也不甘示弱的響著。不過我卻一點也沒辦法將它們二位安撫好。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「摘掉的會再長出來,殺掉的會再活過來,偷走的會再留下來,消失的就消失了。」這是最後的獨角獸吟唱著的歌。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不是最後的獨角獸,她的資質愚鈍了點,只懂得最後那句——消失的就消失了。因為她真的消失了好多原本屬她的那些,只是她無法一一說明,因為那些痛難以言喻。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">現在藥效一點一滴開始輸入她的體內,她的眼前也漸漸得只剩下迷濛了。也許她就也可以學那隻《#最後的獨角獸》跟著他一起輕輕的高歌,雖然無法唱著唱著就離開,但安撫自己,也能進入另一個故事。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我們明天再續~晚安唷! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">《#最後的獨角獸》是本次陪我住院治療的書,謝謝她的陪伴,不過我的是最古老版不是新版。</span></p></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;">Photo by Pexels</div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></div><div dir="auto" style="font-family: inherit;"><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; 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font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="border: none; box-sizing: content-box; color: black; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px; white-space-collapse: collapse;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; white-space-collapse: collapse; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-21378751935164879522023-09-02T00:02:00.004-07:002023-09-02T00:02:28.632-07:00有了孩子的假日不再像以往「不知道要做什麼,最後還是選擇待在家」的假日,而是紥實又忙碌的假日<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNe6n-BqvLlnFjPWtNM9CEYaHOq2hzBlheuKncMIOGm43DAEKaD_mMl3gzxHMZN0618Z44M3C2PPZ0KeYFAz3obvOVZzlhJq5p3-6Ou5w6obaBlXDufsiGS81mCoz4Ycl9dL9VZ0Zwsw2PnIMxVF_nga7F3AJMR_V8oKPORnkrTyFkcvzJgI9gPWSOOM0/s3024/pexels-nomundodejr-jr-18052988.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3024" data-original-width="2268" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNe6n-BqvLlnFjPWtNM9CEYaHOq2hzBlheuKncMIOGm43DAEKaD_mMl3gzxHMZN0618Z44M3C2PPZ0KeYFAz3obvOVZzlhJq5p3-6Ou5w6obaBlXDufsiGS81mCoz4Ycl9dL9VZ0Zwsw2PnIMxVF_nga7F3AJMR_V8oKPORnkrTyFkcvzJgI9gPWSOOM0/w480-h640/pexels-nomundodejr-jr-18052988.jpg" width="480" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">有了孩子的假日不再像以往「不知道要做什麼,最後還是選擇待在家」的假日,而是紥實又忙碌的假日。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">自從孩子確定了自己喜愛的活動也以自己的實力打進了市代表隊後,每週就是一整個下午的團練,而整個下午的時間對父母而言說長也蠻長的,說短其實也不短。那個時間也不是說可以先回家休息等孩子結束團練後再去接他就好的完美時段。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">從家裡出發到團練教室往返就要二小時,所以以我們的狀況是比較不可能先回家,再去接他回家的。而出發前也要完成吃早午餐和一些簡易家事。光是簡單的「團練」其實是需要一整天的去運作的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">剛開始,我們覺得這好長的時段如果只能等待,實在心裡慌得很,不知道和無所事事是一件蠻可怕的一件事啊!而且團練教室旁只有傳統市場和公園,炙熱的天氣要我們待在非室內的地方,身上的汗水都在抗議啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">後來,我們想到可以將在家裡想做的事移至團練教室附近,於是google了最近的咖啡廳。當這個計劃成行於我們心中時,我真是心中充滿感謝啊,因為我可以繼續看書,繼續寫作;J也可以繼續他的學習,而且少了在家中兒子在旁一直要我陪他玩,突然很不習慣啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這件事情和後來的發生雖然都是意料之外的,但卻在我和J心中卻多了另一種小確幸。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">屬於我們倆的小確幸,有點像回到情侶時期那樣,有時J會幼稚的捉弄我....等,總之,意外獲得的「時光」雖然只有三小時,但真的夠了,而且讓我每週都很期待啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">今天雖然無法看完一本書,但應該看完半本是沒問題的,想到可以順利一頁一頁閱讀,不被兒子問「媽咪你看、媽咪你現在有空嗎?、媽咪我們一起玩三國殺、媽咪我們一起來槍戰......」,等等的各種插曲,就覺得格外珍惜。</span></p><div class="lexical__image center" style="-webkit-box-align: center; -webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; align-items: center; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; clear: both; 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font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; max-width: 740px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: middle;" width="100%" /></div></div></div></div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我這麼說,突然覺得大家會誤會我好像覺得很累,想要一個人。不是的,真的不是的。我愛我的兒子,也愛和他玩在一起。但不可否認的是媽媽也很需要自己、自我的時間。而這是非常重要的喔! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">很累是真的,但愛也是真的。我想這就是身為父母後的理解與珍惜。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">恭喜兒子和一群厲害的國手參加錦標賽,還打進了前十強,連教練都讚不絕口,只有我和J還點狀況外。對於比賽,兒子真的很用心,媽媽我佩服也覺得厲害。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="color: var(--gray-2); font-style: inherit; font-variant-caps: inherit; font-variant-ligatures: inherit;"><b>兒子,你很棒喔!愛你! </b></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">說個小秘密:兒子說會想我們,問我們會不會想他。「當然會啊!」我說。可是不是才剛到團練教室嗎?就開始思念嗎?這是怎麼一回事啦! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">只有三小時,要好好的珍惜啊!</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;">Photo by Pexels</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="background-color: white; border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-53072484213893299992023-09-01T07:36:00.003-07:002023-09-01T07:36:29.101-07:00孩子心目中的女神不用世俗標準審核,而是因為愛:魔鏡不要再懷疑了。<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6sWcSC9Rcz3ZaNebmotdjG_0Gjw4QkjOQOFnHDa8UvY4JQkMekz75XQUvoluXkcsuNv6cpFOtUASVBA442RZyWuEfLhhdTCX_OBvl3UlWB5irfp0XeNecjjn5rpZluPQvAhh-W4zeCdzH2I03xLSIojcPaRQRXvfYmOK5hCJe8FkBPh_JUUosqQpkhKY/s6000/pexels-ketut-subiyanto-4473865.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="6000" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj6sWcSC9Rcz3ZaNebmotdjG_0Gjw4QkjOQOFnHDa8UvY4JQkMekz75XQUvoluXkcsuNv6cpFOtUASVBA442RZyWuEfLhhdTCX_OBvl3UlWB5irfp0XeNecjjn5rpZluPQvAhh-W4zeCdzH2I03xLSIojcPaRQRXvfYmOK5hCJe8FkBPh_JUUosqQpkhKY/w640-h426/pexels-ketut-subiyanto-4473865.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不知道為什麼,在孩子們間總有個全民公敵可以一起用言語攻擊,而且是非常開心,甚至自以為傲的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那天晚上我們帶兒子去公園,那天晚上的天氣很悶熱,但愛玩的孩子根本不覺得「悶熱」能夠影響他們在宇宙間的大作戰,只看到一群孩子晃著被汗淋溼的頭髮像髮片似的貼在頭皮上,還有那不知在何處抹上的污漬在經年累月下,累積而成像藝術般的流畫衣服,也被汗水浸溼得像剛從水池裡起來似的。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">那畫面再配上興奮大叫和擔心被發現的尖叫,還有偶爾要跑到你身邊來求救,喚你一聲「爸比」或「媽咪」的激烈遊戲,在現場的我們很難不被影響跟著一起大呼小叫,當起孩子王,而你也會發現,所有的孩子都非常渴望「父母」的加入。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我對於太激烈的動態是無法參與的,頂多小碎步跑著,或是當被營救的那個。所以大部份的「極限」活動全都由J代勞(又跑又爬),然後不知道是不是因為整個公園只有J這位爸爸跟著孩子們一起玩,感染了在場的其它家長,於是加入遊戲的爸爸變多了,不知道的人以為是有斯巴達小活動呢! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">中場休息時,一堆滿身汗的孩子們聚在一起休息喝水,一起聊天。但他們的話題總是令人噴飯。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">A:「跟你們說一個秘密喔!你知道嗎?我爸會放屁喔!」</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">B:「什麼!我爸也會放屁耶!而且很臭喔!頭也很臭。」</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">兒子也加入對談:「我爸也會放屁,而且超級臭!他的頭髮也跟你爸一樣很臭。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">然後一群孩子邊揮著不停滴下的汗水,邊瘋狂的大笑著:自己的爸爸會放屁這件事,然後「放屁」像是點了他們笑穴一樣,一開啟就停不下來。而且無視後面的親生父親正在磨拳擦掌。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我好奇為何主角都是爸爸,而不是媽媽?於是我帶著好奇和孩子聊。沒想到孩子對媽媽的愛有如星辰,無法被取代。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我:「只有爸爸才會放屁嗎?媽媽不會放屁嗎?」我試圖以客觀的角度訪問孩子。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「沒~有,我媽媽才不會放屁。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">「我媽媽就算放屁,也是很小聲,而且一定很香,因為我的媽媽很漂亮。」 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">兒子也搶著回答:「我媽咪才不會放屁,我媽咪全身都很香很香,而且超漂亮的。」兒子說完還跑黏著我抱著我。明明我也滿身汗,自己都不好意思聞了。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">我花了好大的力氣才忍住大笑,原來,媽媽在每個孩子的心目中是完美女神的存在啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">多麼美好的存在,不用現代的審美標準來評斷媽媽。媽媽即使流汗或是蓬頭垢面,在孩子心中一樣又想又美麗。媽媽在孩子心中就像女神一般,無法撼動的高貴地位。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">J斜眼看著兒子:「唉~對啦,媽咪什麼都香,什麼都美啦。我就只是提款機啦!」爸比在原地拿樹枝畫圈圈......。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">意外獲得孩子們心裡的話,天真無邪的孩子真的好可愛,雖然兒子在家也常是媽咪長媽咪短,或是親媽媽全身上下的(連腳底也不放過),有時還真的很受不了。但和朋友們玩在一起的對話,實在還是擄獲不少大人的心。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">這樣陪孩子玩真的超級累,幾乎要休息一天才能恢復,可能比自己運動還要累,但多年後回憶起來,這些疲累和歡笑是永恆的,是不會被抹去的,而且幸福感滿溢,什麼事都比不上這種單純又美好的時刻。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">常看著每年孩子的成長相簿(真的很常,幾乎每天),孩子每個笑容的開懷與每個哭泣的討抱抱,每一張照片都看得我鼻酸又感動,對於時間的流逝真的感到是滿滿的無能為力啊! </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">唯一能做的就是,好好珍惜與孩子成長的每一刻,好好的愛我們的孩子。才能讓不留情的時間在逝去之前,我們至少是沒有任何錯過的。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">孩子的成長總在我們的眨眼之間,雖然天天相處,也住在同一個屋簷下,每日也還是和昨日沒什麼太大的不同,但你仍會在某一個瞬間明顯感覺到——孩子長大了,不再時刻都需要父母的,因為孩子準備往前飛翔。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">而我們不會是你的牽絆,會是一直照亮著你的那道光。怎麼每次寫到這裡就忍不住淚流滿面啊?兒子還以為我怎麼了,立刻抱緊處理。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">不知多久了,我們睡前讀的已不是繪本,而是小說。 </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">最近我們正在讀《默默》</span><a href="https://search.books.com.tw/search/query/key/%E9%BA%A5%E5%85%8B%E5%AE%89%E8%BF%AA/adv_author/1/" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">麥克安迪</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">的作品,之前花了好長一段時間才讀完《永不結束的故事》。不得不說也是好累啊!好幾百頁的小說朗讀,但為愛朗讀也獲得了幸福。</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">Photo by pexels</span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></p><hr style="border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; 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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">有一隻小黑貓,他來自一個「名貓」家族。奶奶是著名的抓鼠高手,爺爺是享負盛名的無舞者。爸爸和媽媽則是城裡最棒的甜點師傅,連哥哥姐姐也相當投入自己熱愛的工作中。總之整個名貓家族裡的貓都很厲害。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">唯獨只有小黑貓和大家不一樣,小黑貓只喜歡不停不停的看書,不過也因為這樣,讓家族裡的貓很擔心。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">「讀書並不是一種工作」你不如加入機器人設計師的工作吧?</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 「做料理超實用又有趣,廚房裡永遠有一個屬於你的位置。」</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 「我們的樂團超適合你的,你快來吧。」</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 儘管其它的貓都苦勸他不要再讀書了,但小黑貓就不為所動,他常說:「翻開書,總能帶我到達任何地方和成為各種角色。」</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 小黑貓很喜歡探索城市,幾乎和他愛看書的程度差不多,因為他在每個不同的地方都可以挖掘到許多好玩又新奇的事物。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 有一天早晨他看見了一間可愛的小書店門外掛著牌子,上面寫著:徵求小幫手。小黑貓興奮的直搖,心想著終於找到專屬的工作了。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 「真是太棒了,太適合我了,我好愛書,而且我也好想幫忙。」小黑貓按捺不住的大叫著,也嚇到了身邊的人。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 書店的小女孩見狀就邀請小黑貓進到書店來並向他介紹這是一間兒童書店。也是自家經營好幾代的書店,剛好我們需要一個幫手。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 「哦!剛剛好我有小貓爪,而且我很樂意幫忙。」小黑貓的回答真是可愛極了,要我就立刻用她了。哈。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 於是黑貓就開始了在書店工作的日子,而且什麼事都盡心盡力做到最好,把書店佈置得和家一樣溫馨,連我都好想去。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 最厲害的是小黑貓總是能為每個小朋友找到最適合他們的書,讓他們徜徉在書的世界裡。自從小黑貓來了後,書店就變得超級忙碌,喔不,是超級超級忙碌。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 有一天,和往常一樣的早晨小黑貓一直沒有等到搭去書店的巴士,一旁的小鳥兒們嘰嘰喳喳的說著:「聽說巴士被大雨困住也拋錨了,修理也修不好。」聽到這裡小黑貓也急了,覺得不能只是枯坐著,他決定要利用其它的方式到達書店。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 當他到達書店時差點沒昏倒,因為書店的慘況比他想的還糟糕。原來是消防栓爆掉了,書本們全被噴溼了。湧出的水不停的漫到四處,淹滿整個街道;而書店前也出現了一條無法跨越的河,因此再也沒有任何顧客上門看書了。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 就這樣過了好多好多天,小維感傷著說:我們已經被忘記了。」但小黑貓什麼話也沒有說,只是捲成一團安安靜靜的。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 沒想到這個消息傳回了「名貓」家族,大家都知道是時候該他們上場了。媽媽說:「別擔心,需要幫忙時,我們都在,這才是家人啊!快告訴我們需要做的吧!」</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">小維想到了一個點子,既然孩子們沒辦法來書店,不好我們把書帶去給他們吧。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">隔天,大家都出發了,分頭出發到城市裡的各個角落,讓孩子可以看到書。當孩子發現有著各式各樣的書,都超級興奮的。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">而且在每本書裡,都塞著一張小紙條和地圖。上面寫著:你的冒險才正要開始!跟著地圖出發尋找更多秘密。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">小朋友們照著小紙條裡的地點來了神秘地方,你們猜猜是哪裡?沒錯,就是小維的書店。每個來訪的小朋友都開心的一擁而上,也發現書店看起比以前更美了。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">每個人都非常開心,也享受這一切。重要的是孩子們每次翻開書,就能到達那個神秘的地方和成為各種角色。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">小黑貓好欣慰,一直很興奮也發出中上最大聲的呼嚕咕嚕喔!看來,小黑貓真的非常的開心呢!</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">故事說到這裡就結束了,不過「每次翻開書,就能到達那個神秘的地方和成為各種角色。」這句話卻讓我很有共鳴,因為我也是這樣呢?你呢?</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">我想成長過程中,你一定也有像小黑貓這樣的經驗。有些是你明明喜歡的事,卻因為不得不去迎合別人的眼光,而收起那份喜歡和熱情。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">像是什麼呢?我記得唸書時,我還是很喜歡繪本,不知為何,我就是很愛繪本。而和我同齡的朋友們都喜歡少女漫畫,看她們窩在一起討論著情節,而我卻插不上話確實是有點沮喪,但我就真的看不懂少女漫畫啊! </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">一開始,我為了也要和同學一樣,有相同的話題可以聊,我從她們喜愛的漫畫選了一本來看,但一本都還沒有看完,我就投降了,後來一直到今日,我都未在翻閱過少女漫畫,因為我實在沒辦法。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">不過我的同學們也沒有因此就把我視為不可親近的怪人啦,只是她們會知道,有什麼活動會找我,而又有什麼活動就不會主動找我。我覺得那樣也很好,就是一種人際界線吧!</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">因為我喜歡的畢竟是和他人不同,所以就算很喜歡,我也會很刻意的隱瞞其實沒那麼喜歡它,只是無聊打發時間而已。但其實只有自己知道,自己有多麼的寶貝啊!</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">不知道你是否也有這樣的經歷呢?我相信一定是有的,來吧,就在這裡,我們都不要不好意思,好嗎?如果你願意,我期待收到你的回覆喔!</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">小黑貓很幸運,雖然他喜歡的都不是一般人眼中是有未來的,不過家族裡的所有貓都沒有嫌棄它,甚至讓他自由的去探索自己的旅程。這是多令人響往的啊!</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">人生不一定要追求什麼,或是獲得那些名和利,只有有人默默地支持著你的喜歡,那真的就夠了。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">在小黑貓順利地在書店做著他找尋很多的夢幻工作後,並非一帆風順,它仍然遇到了不幸,書店毀了,原本絡繹不絕的盛況,已不覆在。原本熱鬧的景像,如今也只剩下他和小唯乾瞪眼。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"> 不過,這時出現很溫暖的情節,「名貓」的家人們全都來了,他們不在意「失敗」這件事,沒有為此數落小黑貓,或是落井下石。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">反而用愛展開了雙臂來協助小黑貓和小唯的困境。這是多少令人動容的事啊,畢竟在這個時代,不被罵就要偷笑了呢!所以我的感受是特別的深啊! </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">最後他們焦結了好主意,反而讓還本的經營方式更上一層樓,不只讓上門看書的孩子變多了,也讓書店的規模變得和以前不一樣了。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">這場意外,雖然阻隔了孩子與小黑貓之間,但卻也因為這個事件,反而讓大家的距離更加靠近了。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">宊然其來的大水來得又快又猛烈,破壞了原本的,習慣的了那些好日子,卻又因破壞有了新的重生。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">過程當然痛苦且有所擔憂,畢竟這是未知的冒險,但沒想到不請自來的災難與破壞性,卻迎來意想不到的新生。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">小黑貓和家族的故事也是告訴我們,人生在世,事事難料,不過有時危機是改變一生的轉機,我們就順其自然的應對明天 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">是一本充滿真實和現實主義的故事。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">我們無法預測或改變明天,但可以順著那些我們所看見的去找到可能,即使結局不會太好,但不嘗試就永遠不知道,甚至留少遺憾。</p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">生活中有沒有是什麼像小黑貓一樣遇到困難,卻慢慢的迎刃而解的呢?非常歡迎你留言與我分享喔! </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">或許我們願意重新看待每一次的機會,那麼即使在剛開始是一敗徒敗塗地的,也能跨出滿出泥檸的那一步喔。 </p>
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<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">The Bookshop Cat</p>
<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">作者: 吳欣芷 </p>
<p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;">出版社:小典藏出版</p><p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px; text-align: left;"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; text-align: left; word-break: break-word;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; 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<p style="margin: 0px;"></p></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-3557510254215366152023-08-31T07:27:00.007-07:002023-08-31T07:27:56.144-07:00過好我們的人生,種好自己的玫瑰。未來的事,隨機應變。《這世界很煩,但你要很可愛2》<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgFvIyZaU8IrZ1aCTS0GCXxxEEdyiEjUBfHaNl6Scr8AqUTUt7hqJHup61e1JUbWsNNDM97-tg6_X7MnFBf3tZM7T62ui8OWBXuXOdoPFIyoq_SunSwRSg955S22H2Yw87Yb0yZ8Buwm9rxvxh9BFQnmdkb_X95vqH372ER32TwXv5scbpW_qycfCwBhKM/s2880/SelfieCity_20230831183410_org.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2880" data-original-width="1810" height="640" 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0px;">確實當時先以隨手翻閱的方式閱讀第一部時,真的較難立刻與之有共嗚,甚至覺得自己與第一部作品有著明顯的代溝。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">追了我許多年的讀者都知道,即使是受到邀約合作的書,我也不會單方面只說好或不好,我是很認真的看待每本作品的。(我會不會是令出版社捏了好幾把冷汗的誠實的閱讀分享者?)</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">如果你正在混濁不明、難過不安的階段去閱讀本書,或許你會有種無法認同或是更加受傷的感感覺。我並不說此書不好,絕對不是。而是老實說這類的作品相較於書市上的心靈成長書藉來說是比較少的。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">書裡說的都偏向於「理情行為治療」的理解方式與我們分享,所以並不是一般負面書評裡談到的「自以為是、哪可能做得到.....」,這樣類似的評語,其實那有失客觀。而且人生中很有可能就因此失去了一本重要的書。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">不過,要真正閱讀完畢,才能能理解作者想要傳達的是什麼,否則你會很容易,被書中那些看起來觸不可及的鼓勵話語對自己產生懷疑。也因此我也才理解為什麼評價如此兩極化的原因。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">舉例來說,每個人對疼痛的感覺都不一樣,有人覺得痛,但不會感到生氣;但有人會感到悲哀生氣。其實感到不悅的不是痛的本身,而是我們對疼痛的態度,大約是這樣的意思。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">不論在哪種關係中,我們也最常面臨到的就是,某些人就是做了令你感到討厭,讓你生氣或感到受傷;但受傷和不高興是自己創造出來的一種負面感覺。我們可以選擇不要讓「它」影響我們,繼續做我們認為對的事。——這樣的方式基本上就是理情行為治療的方式。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">不過像我修行沒那麼好的人,不可能在一開始就如此帥氣地放下,我還是需要一段時間去整理自己和理解自己與他人的關係,才有辦法做到上述讓「它」不影響我。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">我說的這些,都是想要和讀者們分享,今天要分享給大家的書,絕不是一本讓你感到遙不可及的書,希望在我理解後的分享,大家都能對這本書有更多的興趣,也能在書裡找到和自己對話的珍貴時刻。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">《這世界很煩,但你要很可愛2》這次除了作者萬特特,還邀請了其它女性作家聯合一起分享她們的人生故事,讓本書想要給予我們的祝福更加豐富。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">記得當時收到書也是這樣很意外地被拉進書裡的某個篇章,然後就在作者們的人生故事裡找到了回應。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">人生百態,世事難預測,你永遠無法預測明天,甚至是下一秒,不過除了絕望之外,我們還能開發自己的自癒能力來面對整個世界。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">有時,不,應該是說,我們常常會在某些事情上糾結而感到不安或煩躁,可是往往我們就是太急著要把這一段用力跳過去,所以花費了好多的力氣在如何讓這一切快點過去,也就是因為這樣,才讓我們的焦躁不安更難宣洩。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">而身處在數位時代的我們往往沒有機會去發現,科技與便利為我們帶來了許多的災難,心也在不斷往前跑的過程中被淘空,於是將日子過成連自己都厭惡的樣子。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">舉例來說,廣告和社群中最多人關注的其中一項一定是「行銷」,有一陣子很流行「愛自己,就是對自己好一點,肯投資在自己身上」,或是「把錢變成自己喜歡的樣子,因為這是疼愛自己的表現」。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">有多少人因為社群的力量被說服了,也淪為光鮮亮麗的空虛一族(心靈)?這也是心理學說的從眾效應。但這效應的風險就在於所有的意見和觀點都太過一致,很容易導致忽略重要的事情。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">即使少數鼓勵表達更客觀更多元的想法,有時也有可能被推翻;或是跟著盲目追求和大家一樣的東西。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;">但</p><p style="margin: 0px;">從眾效應也是雙面刃,只是我們能否保持清醒和客觀,並能擁有獨立思考的能力呢?這才是我們需要認真去面對的。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">就像作者也在書裡提到:「人有慾望是合理的,但是慾望不能透支,慾望被透支得越徹底,越容易失去自我,生活不會變得精緻,反而過得一塌糊塗。」</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">特別是從網路濾鏡視角看出去的每一樣東西,和每個人的表面人設,沒有一個是你很難不羨慕也無法不追隨的,而我覺得有時反而變成了一種病態。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">記得我在之前的文章也有提到對於年齡的增長,大家雖然說要優雅的老去,但是大部份的人都是「刻意」的做些什麼,然後以為這樣就是優雅的老去,其實大家心知肚明,但卻忍不住也想</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">要和別人一樣,讓容貌與歲月形成一種非常不自然的對比。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;">選擇本身不酷,酷的是——我們能借此找到你的心之所向。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;">熱愛本身不酷,酷的是——追逐星星同時活成自己的太陽。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a 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style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">正是這樣的心態讓我們也可以從另一個視角去看見不同於以往的自己,當我們能這麼做時,其實也就能不再盲目追求。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">身為女性,我們有太多社會文化給的限制,我們變得在意他人給我們的眼光,在意自己是否和別人不一樣,在意如果沒有符合大家的期待,就會變成不受歡迎的人(怪人)。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">光是這樣的「追求」就讓自己的人生感到身心俱疲,似乎只能在回家或四下無人時,才能好好的做回自己。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">即便你現在是一個人,常在堅持和將就猶豫糾結著。希望你能夠再堅持一下下,先過好自己的日子,把自己變得「合理」不過度的好,才能讓相同頻率的人看到。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">時間會讓你看清很多東西,只要你願意開始改變,就能看見一切開始變得不一樣了。記得,永遠相信那些力量,只有自己能夠給自己,而痛苦也只有自己能夠能穿越。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">分享書裡一段說:無須考慮「做這件事有什麼用」,也不用在意「別人會不會幫我按讚」,那是我們真正能與自己共處的時刻,藉由那些被虛度的、無法言說的片段,得到細微的喜悅和寧靜。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">永遠被成就感驅動,那多無趣呀。希望我們都有等一朵花開的耐心。過好我們的人生,種好自己的玫瑰,未來的事,隨機應變。</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">努力前進的同時,也別忘了「要懂得「靜下來來好好休息,心靈才不會衰敗,與自己成為最有默契的戰友。我想這就是《這世界很煩_但你要很可愛2》作者們所說的——可愛超能力!</p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"> </p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;"><br /></p><p style="margin: 0px;">微微想說</p><p>
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text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCgG34INAYPGIrTEkpA2qcKbFggWhZsHnr-7fBy29-Qui2ZZ5QOWG6wYCggxMd1DuUZ7Vj52ceAGz6AxJQrr3ltPYVNVSnX90IZIMo-wrsnVo1jFihFPZXCi8nle_OMCSM_J-PHLkqJdzyW9dar5X2XT5aXd2aefOFMVVJqG46CpvXEihoH_MgT69zeoA/s6000/pexels-lisa-fotios-5860964.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="6000" data-original-width="4000" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgCgG34INAYPGIrTEkpA2qcKbFggWhZsHnr-7fBy29-Qui2ZZ5QOWG6wYCggxMd1DuUZ7Vj52ceAGz6AxJQrr3ltPYVNVSnX90IZIMo-wrsnVo1jFihFPZXCi8nle_OMCSM_J-PHLkqJdzyW9dar5X2XT5aXd2aefOFMVVJqG46CpvXEihoH_MgT69zeoA/w426-h640/pexels-lisa-fotios-5860964.jpg" width="426" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><span id="docs-internal-guid-dd1655bf-7fff-b713-8db9-f5b4c5d10555"><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">終於回來了!我失而復得的粉專。最近大家都好嗎?</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在七月底時收到了即將被停權的訊息後,原本以為會如朋友所說的詐騙情節,不予理會即可,但沒想到不是詐騙,是真的被停權使用了。我想這應該是第一次如此期待——寧願被詐騙吧!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">原本分享計劃突然中斷,而自己這些年的分享心血、作品也全被消失的無影無蹤,更可怕的是和讀者朋友的聯繫也可能就此結束,一想到累積多年的一切,就這樣莫名的原地被取走,連心理準備都來不及做好。在不得載入也收不到任何來自臉書回覆的那一陣子,心情真的很糟糕。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">因為自己的粉專屬性也不是那種追蹤人數破數萬以上的人氣大粉專,分享的也不是很貼近關鍵的議題,就是很小眾型的小粉專,所以我也有自知之明,很有可能不會收到客服回覆,而到底為何被停權的原因,也許最後也不得而知了。</span></p><br /><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">但讓人感到無法理解的是,我嘗試寫了不止一封求救信給客服並沒有收到任何回覆;但卻持續收到不止一封「教你如何下廣告、有效競爭....」的行銷信件。這種感覺就好像是你跌倒受傷請求協助直接被漠視,還被強迫買藥一樣的無言。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我心裡也有很多困惑無法被解開,難道使用者就只能默默地摸摸鼻子就算了,反正有「拿回來」就好了嗎?所有使用者的權益為什麼「只能這樣了」?使用者的福祉不被重視,該被審查的置之不理,任由不實舖天蓋地,被權勢綁架的使用者連基本的尊嚴和權利都在廣告利益之下。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">更可笑也可悲的是,我竟然還是需要它。或許既得利益者所建立的王國就是穩穩地踩著這一點,所以在一開始的時候,本來就沒有選擇與否的問題,而是支配與操弄。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在確認無法使用後,我幾乎時時刻刻都在「重新整理」的圖示下按著,試圖找回起死回生的希望,但隨著時間和無奈的推移,無力感徒增的同時,我並沒有閒置任其荒廢,我也重新梳理了自己。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">一直到今天凌晨無意間發現粉專回來了,才更加確定失而復得的這段日子裡練習覺察,是有顯著效果的,如同我現在平靜地訴說這些日子。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">目前,我仍會繼續在自己的粉專耕耘,但為了避免這樣的事件再次發生,我不想再過度依賴或被不合理的演算法、低觸及等綁架著,然後傻傻認為似乎只剩投放廣告費來因應?從現在起將有些變動,還請大家見諒。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">微微的分享與創作將同步公開於 #方格子 與部落格【NAC愛的小宇宙-親子故事療癒】</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">【Youtube 微與孩子們的日常】:</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/01GkvK" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; text-decoration-line: underline; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">https://reurl.cc/01GkvK</span></a><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> / </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">【方格子/棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿】:</span><a href="https://vocus.cc/user/@our-story" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; text-decoration-line: underline; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">https://vocus.cc/user/@our-story</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">【部落格/NAC愛的小宇宙-親子故事療癒】:</span><a href="http://www.naciou.com/" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; text-decoration-line: underline; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">http://www.naciou.com/</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">微微的IG搜尋:vivlovesnu</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #202124; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">避免各社交平台無故中斷或取消使用者的使用權和讀者好友間的情誼,</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">請填寫表單,留下可聯絡的Email。</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/RzAg9z" style="text-decoration-line: none;"><span style="color: #1155cc; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; text-decoration-line: underline; text-decoration-skip-ink: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">https://reurl.cc/RzAg9z</span></a></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #202124; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #202124; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">我們可以在這裡保持聯繫。日後有任何變動或是重大消息,都將傳送至您留下的電子信箱喔!(請放心,不會有任何廣告騷擾)</span><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">而我也會透過電子報的形式與大家保持聯繫。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">在貼文中的網址會嚴重影響觸及,但,不管了。就先這樣,至少清楚寫下可聯繫的管道才是最重要的。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">當我寫下這篇文章的同時收到了四個假帳號的私訊騷擾!真奇怪。</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">謝謝大家的關心和理解和等待喔!私訊多無法即時回覆,但我一定會回覆的,除非是私訊量多,一時眼花瞭亂沒拉到所有訊息,但一定都會回覆的。只是需要大家願意等候,再麻煩大家體諒! </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">希望一切已回到正常的發文狀態,而大家也都能看見貼文。請大家盡快去填電子信箱表單喔!</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"> </span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;">Photo by Pexels</span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; vertical-align: baseline; white-space-collapse: preserve;"><br /></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。祝福你的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /></span></p><hr style="border: none; box-sizing: content-box; cursor: pointer; height: 0px; margin: 1em 0px; outline: 0px; overflow: visible; padding: 2px;" /><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff485a; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a></span><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; 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font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-size: 20px; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><br style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; letter-spacing: 0.8px; outline: 0px;" /></p><br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-22515549554030475802023-08-03T22:35:00.001-07:002023-08-03T22:35:14.979-07:00如果沒有彼此的理解與接納,愛也許已消磨殆盡<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhyON44XRo3TgQ5x2ADdTnFQoez8ATMaQRNCGNut-D7RRK47CijbKIuCSI78-t4wyYcbdPbXYe0TyljujWJa6X6qqgfgIpdcaqQG72nPpObMuIj6nFhjy5ESrpiS4sr0O-4C_6v6HZj0qG0PB9PJoh8jOSfUpeO8kANXsKt2yC-DZHnbG8u80as3GsGTUU/s2048/361876993_688230273317378_199276381786500970_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; 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background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0" waprocessedanchor="true">#</a></span><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%A6%82%E6%9E%9C%E6%B2%92%E6%9C%89%E5%BD%BC%E6%AD%A4%E7%9A%84%E7%90%86%E8%A7%A3%E8%88%87%E6%8E%A5%E7%B4%8D_%E6%84%9B%E4%B9%9F%E8%A8%B1%E5%B7%B2%E6%B6%88%E7%A3%A8%E6%AE%86%E7%9B%A1?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0" waprocessedanchor="true">如果沒有彼此的理解與接納_愛也許已消磨殆盡</a><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">「在關係中的旅程,一起經歷酸澀與甜美,才能感受到「愛」是滋養關係的養份,而不是彼此的累贅。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">大家早安,歡迎來到《微晨時光》屬於大人的繪本時光。用繪本開啟每一天。用可以聽的早餐,滋養我們的心靈。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">《</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%86%8D%E7%AD%89%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%8B%E4%B8%8B?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0" waprocessedanchor="true">#再等一下下</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">》</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">由親子天下出版,還是本月剛出版的新書喔!而本書的創作者是我們台灣的創作家:</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E6%9D%8E%E6%86%B6%E5%A9%B7?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#李憶婷</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">,是旅英的繪本創作家。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">她特別喜歡輕柔的筆觸來描繪豐富的一幅一幅的小故事,這在繪本裡都能看見作者想要傳達的溫柔。那麼就讓我們一起走進故事裡吧!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">烏龜曼曼和兔子蹦蹦,他們是好朋友,最喜歡的是每天的點心時間,看著他們愜意的享受,我好像也感覺到那份自在。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">而這時曼曼看著遠方的那座山說:「那邊好美呀!總有一天我要爬上那座山。等我準備好了的那一天,我一定要出發。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">可是,這句話兔子蹦蹦聽了好多次,於是蹦蹦提議:「那我們明天就出發吧!」不過曼曼卻還是覺得不用那麼急,雖然心裡覺得蹦蹦的提議有點趕,但曼曼也還是答應了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">隔天,兔子蹦蹦一大早就到了曼曼的家門口等待,但是曼曼一直都還沒準備好,也不斷地說:「再等我一下下!再等我一下下!再1分鐘就好。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">蹦蹦等了好久好久,都開始有點心煩氣燥了。她心想著,烏龜曼曼到底在忙什麼啊。後來蹦蹦進門後,看到曼曼竟然還有時間在打掃、打扮、甚至還洗衣服和畫畫。這一切都讓蹦蹦受不了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">蹦蹦接近崩潰大喊著:「沒有再一下下啦。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">曼曼雖然被嚇了一跳,但他仍然慢條斯理的回答:「不用那麼急吧,只是多等了幾分鐘而已呀。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">最後,最後,他們終於可以出門了,這趟說了好久的旅程,真是經歷了千辛萬苦呢!在到達那座很美的山的途中,他們就先遇到了一條湍急的大河流,這時蹦蹦有點擔心大喊著:「怎麼辦,前面有一條河,我們過不去了。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">不過曼曼說:「等我一下下!」同時,他從背包裡拿出充氣艇出來,最後他們成功地度過河流。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">沒過多久,蹦蹦又大喊著:「糟糕,前面有叉路,我們該走哪一條才對呀?」曼曼還是說著他那句口頭禪:「等我一下下!」並且不慌不忙的從背包拿出地圖來找到正確的路。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">好多突發狀況都發生在這趟旅程中,也讓兔子蹦蹦經常驚聲尖叫著,可是烏龜曼曼總是能保持耐心,慢條斯理地從背包裡,拿出他準備的法寶來解決問題。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">也因此,才讓這趟旅程變得更加順利。最後,他們終於抵達了那座美麗的山頂。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">這一路實在是太過艱辛,讓兔子蹦蹦的肚子也感同身受地發出咕嚕咕嚕的聲音。沒想到,還沒等蹦蹦開口,烏龜曼曼又從背包裡拿出了餐點和蹦蹦一起分享。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">來到了夜晚,黑夜將月亮襯托得更美,還有滿天的星星點綴,這讓曼曼和蹦蹦看的好陶醉。曼曼忍不住又說:「總有一天,我要到上面去看看。」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">蹦蹦聽到又要再次出發感到很開心。於是又提議著:「真的嗎?那我們明天就出發吧!」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">而烏龜曼曼又是一派輕鬆笑笑地回答:「用不著那麼急吧!」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">故事說到這裡就結束了,你可能也和我一樣被曼曼和蹦蹦反差如此大的態度牽引著,也跟著在著急中期盼或擔心著。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">很像親子之間的關係吧!就像很多分享者以親子關係的角度去看這本書,但我感受到的和大家不太相同。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">怎麼說呢?曼曼和蹦蹦之間的相處和互動,觸動了我內心裡的那份情感,而且是濃濃的,也等不及要和大家分享。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">。。。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">《</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%86%8D%E7%AD%89%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%8B%E4%B8%8B?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#再等一下下</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">》繪本中的兔子和烏龜,就如同家喻戶曉的龜兔賽跑故事一樣,二位可愛的小主角,分別有著天差地遠的二種性格,但本書中沒有輸贏,也沒有警惕我們不能自大或半途而廢。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">曼曼和蹦蹦和相處反而於我心有戚戚焉,雖然是繪本,但我覺得《</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%86%8D%E7%AD%89%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%8B%E4%B8%8B?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#再等一下下</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">》談得是很深層的 </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E4%BA%92%E5%8B%95%E9%97%9C%E4%BF%82?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#互動關係</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">,且完全可以用在任何「關係」裡的自我覺察。尤其是親密關係。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">在關係中的彼此,真的如同曼曼和蹦蹦一樣,也和 </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E6%A6%AE%E6%A0%BC?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#榮格</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> 說過的:內傾與外傾二種不同性格都是一樣的,沒有誰對誰錯,更沒有誰一定要去配合誰。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">也就是因為二者如此獨特,所以在相處或合作上就需要不斷的去磨合。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">向左有向左的理由,而往右有往右的顧慮。我們常在關係中聽見對對方的抱怨,也覺得自己已經夠努力了,怎麼還是感到挫敗和無力呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我們也知道在「關係」中要學會尊重,如果彼此能有共識那再好不過了。可是問題常常就卡在這裡,因為我們認為的尊重,其實會不會在對方心裡只是——有目的的條件交換。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">什麼意思呢?我說的不是惡意的情感操控,而是不自覺的。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我的意思是,當我願意改變且尊重你時,我的心中自然就會有了期望,這是人之常情。而那個期望通常就是——我都......,你就應該也要怎樣。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">不過,我們仔細去梳理後會發現原來會卡住的,不是因為我們不夠努力去調整和改變,而是我們還無法完全的接納。而事實上,某些事情是無法被改變的,例如天生的氣質與特質。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">所以關係才會那麼難以被調整到穠纖合度,不小心就演變成想要改變或控制對方,想讓關係圓滿,而越是努力就越感到不安。大家是不是也有這樣的感覺呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我們都是渴望被愛、被理解也被肯定的。而這也是人類獨有的特質和情感需求,也是很正常的。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">但為何我們無法像曼曼和蹦蹦那樣,不因對方的有所期望而解讀成是「你是在指責、你是在抱怨」呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">曼曼沒有因為蹦蹦的催促而生氣,蹦蹦雖然有些著急有些催促,但蹦蹦仍然可以包容曼曼的特質,也懂得接納,就像曼曼也接納蹦蹦一樣。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">畢竟沒有人是完美的。否則他們也不會一直維持著很好的情誼。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">兔子蹦蹦不受拘束,且自由奔放是她的特質;而烏龜曼曼凡事慢條斯理,享受當下的每一刻,除了此時此刻,其餘的可以先擱置,也是他的特質。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">作者透過一趟充滿冒險的旅程,讓我們看見這二位性格、特質不同的主角,在往同一個目標前進時,所遇到的問題和產生的各種火花,過程中雖然有點驚險,但最後都能迎刃而解。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">因為懂得接納,讓「不一樣」變成了彼此都懂得欣賞和支持的特質。你說這是不是在告訴我們,無論是在哪一種關係裡也是相同的道理呢?例如:親子關係、親密關係等等。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">關係的呵護,就像在一趟不止很遠,且充滿冒險的旅程當中,我們一定會遇到的各種困境與磨合,雖然有時傷透腦筋,有時也會傷透了心,但都是為了讓彼此的關係更加緊密。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我們期望的關係要長久,就要放下期望對方要改變的想法,才能更懂得欣賞和接納。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">「關係」這趟冒險旅程,不會只有自己和自己,而是練習同理彼此,一起經歷旅途中的酸澀與甜美,才能感受到「愛」是滋養關係的養份,而不是彼此的累贅。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我是微微,希望今天的繪本分享也能讀進你的心裡面,《</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz xt0b8zv xzsf02u x1s688f" href="https://www.facebook.com/hashtag/%E5%BE%AE%E6%99%A8%E6%99%82%E5%85%89?__eep__=6&__tn__=*NK*F" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; background-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; font-family: inherit; font-weight: 600; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-align: inherit; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">#微晨時光</a></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">》屬於大人的繪本時光,用繪本開啟我們的每一天。用可以聽的早餐,滋養我們的心靈。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">記得每天都要和我們愛的人說我愛你,謝謝你,別忘記也給彼此一個擁抱喔!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">在上班途中的朋友,路上小心。正餵著寶寶、正做著家事,或是正在忙得團團轉的你,辛苦了。謝謝你們的收聽和閱讀喔!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">祝福大家的每一天都能夠在紛擾裡找回平靜和溫柔自在。</span></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></p><div class="mod type02_p002 clearfix" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.38; margin: 0px 0px 10px; padding: 0px;"><h1 style="font-size: 17.004px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">《再等一下下!》</h1><h2 style="font-size: 13px; font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><a href="https://search.books.com.tw/search/query/cat/all/key/What%E2%80%99s%20the%20Rush%3F" style="color: #333333; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;">What’s the Rush?</a></h2></div><div class="type02_p003 clearfix" style="background-color: white; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 1.7; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; position: relative;"><ul style="font-size: 13px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><li style="line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; position: relative;">作者: <a href="https://search.books.com.tw/search/query/key/%E6%9D%8E%E6%86%B6%E5%A9%B7/adv_author/1/" style="color: #333333; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;">李憶婷</a> <a class="type02_btn02" id="trace_btn1" style="background: none; border: none; color: #333333; cursor: pointer; display: inline-block; font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Helvetica, Arial, clean, sans-serif !important; font-feature-settings: normal !important; font-kerning: auto !important; font-optical-sizing: auto !important; font-size: 12px !important; font-stretch: normal !important; font-variant-alternates: normal !important; font-variant-east-asian: normal !important; font-variant-numeric: normal !important; font-variation-settings: normal !important; line-height: normal !important; margin: 0px; outline: none; overflow: visible; padding: 0px; text-wrap: nowrap; user-select: none;"><span style="background: url("images/sp_type02_btn1.gif") right -300px no-repeat; display: block; height: 20px; padding-right: 8px;"><span class="trace_txt" style="background: url("images/sp_type02_btn1.gif") left -300px no-repeat; display: block; height: 20px; line-height: 20px; padding-left: 8px; padding-right: 0px;">追蹤作者</span></span></a> <a href="https://www.books.com.tw/activity/2015/06/trace/index.html#author" style="color: #333333; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;" target="_blank" title="新功能介紹"><cite class="help" style="background: url("images/sp_type02_icon1.png") -581px -1198px no-repeat; display: inline-block; font-style: normal; height: 20px; margin-left: 3px; text-indent: -9999px; width: 20px;">新功能介紹</cite></a></li><li style="line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; position: relative;">繪者: <a href="https://search.books.com.tw/search/query/key/%E6%9D%8E%E6%86%B6%E5%A9%B7/adv_author/1/" style="color: #333333; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;">李憶婷</a></li><li style="line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; position: relative;">出版社:<a href="https://www.books.com.tw/web/sys_puballb/books/?pubid=cw" style="color: #333333; outline: none; text-decoration-line: none;">親子天下</a> </li><li style="line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; position: relative;">出版日期:2023/06/29</li></ul><div style="font-size: 13px;"><br /></div><div style="font-size: 13px;"><br /></div><div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!</span><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><br style="box-sizing: border-box; outline: 0px;" /><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:</span><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></span></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; color: black; font-family: "Noto Sans TC", "Microsoft JhengHei fixed", "Helvetica Neue", "Microsoft JhengHei", Helvetica, "Segoe UI", Arial, "PingFang TC", -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Roboto, "Microsoft YaHei", STHeiti, SimSun, STSong, "Heiti TC", Tahoma, sans-serif, "Apple Color Emoji", "Segoe UI Emoji", "Segoe UI Symbol", "Noto Color Emoji"; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-variant-alternates: inherit; font-variant-east-asian: inherit; font-variant-numeric: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; letter-spacing: 0.04em; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 28px auto; min-height: 1.7em; outline: 0px; position: relative; word-break: break-word;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:</span><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener" style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; background-color: transparent; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;">微微的原創晚安故事</span></a><span style="-webkit-font-smoothing: antialiased; box-sizing: border-box; font-feature-settings: inherit; font-kerning: inherit; font-optical-sizing: inherit; font-stretch: inherit; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; font-variation-settings: inherit; font-weight: inherit; line-height: inherit; outline: 0px;"> </span></span></p></div></div><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><br /></span></span></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-66250920030266021792023-08-03T07:50:00.005-07:002023-08-03T07:50:44.986-07:00後來我才明白,有些發生也許是必然的<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih6NInqz6dhN9pAEb_9-W48N4-X1BL7ajw5F6BF6OM19mXocm72bJ_xuZzwIL7Zd0UIgmXe6UrW8ctT9JaOQfwk-iNtPkmfUtsF4EJIYiHmK_3UIikp9M6uXWDLn_qE0PXRaJM0buHPme1CSTHxjKWlcKAU1spmDuYetH2gMkPPXQUcz7ucCy5mqtHUuI/s2048/287248794_411265104347231_5257031105787807960_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1638" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih6NInqz6dhN9pAEb_9-W48N4-X1BL7ajw5F6BF6OM19mXocm72bJ_xuZzwIL7Zd0UIgmXe6UrW8ctT9JaOQfwk-iNtPkmfUtsF4EJIYiHmK_3UIikp9M6uXWDLn_qE0PXRaJM0buHPme1CSTHxjKWlcKAU1spmDuYetH2gMkPPXQUcz7ucCy5mqtHUuI/w512-h640/287248794_411265104347231_5257031105787807960_n.jpg" width="512" /></a></div><br /><p></p><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">每一次的發生,我們不一定能全然接受。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">但是,</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我們總能有所獲得,在每一次的後來。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">因為每一次經歷的深刻都在我的心裡反覆拉扯和重新調節;於是在多年後的現在或者未來才能理解這一切的有所連結。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">這真的不是一件容易的事,因為沒有答案可以參考;或許就是因為沒有標準答案所以更加特別地有意義。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">在童書區中,《不會說話的石頭告訴我們的事》吸引了我的目光,在閱讀前好奇探索著不會說話的石頭是什麼?又代表了什麼。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我發現了一件有趣的事,在書名中,也許有人對於「不會說話的石頭」感到好奇,但或許也有人對於「告訴我們的事」是什麼?你是哪一種呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">故事敍述著,熊在森林裡散步時被一顆小石頭刺了一下而跌倒,熊痛得大叫也生氣地質問石頭。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">但是石頭沒有回答,因為石頭不會說話。於是氣呼呼的熊便把石頭一丟……砸到了一棵大樹。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">而樹上的鳥巢,承受不住搖晃,竟然掉下來砸在獵人的頭上,遭受無妄之災的獵人氣得直跳腳。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">因為這個突如其來的意外,害他本來瞄準熊的子彈射偏了……。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">和死神擦身而過的熊完全不知道,自己幸運躲過了子彈的死亡威脅,而看似毫無關聯的小小事件,串起一個不可思議又發人省思的故事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">不會說話的石頭,也象徵著人生中的各種經歷,但那些令人不論是喜悅或是悲傷痛苦的經歷,就像繪本裡的石頭一樣,它們不會說話,當然更不會告訴你原因或是解答。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">而熊全然不知,那顆他視為絆腳石的石頭竟救了他一命;也彷彿在說,是不是在很多時候,我們也經常在微不足道的日常裡忽略了那些很重要的事呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">這是一本充滿哲理的繪本,我們很喜歡。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">重點是沒有答案的結局,讓人忍不住想探索得更多更深入,甚至創造了更多的「後來」。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">雖然熊因為石頭逃過了死劫,但鳥與鳥巢似乎變成了犠牲者?!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">是嗎?或是鳥也因此獲救了呢?那麼獵人呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">在這個宇宙循環中,到底誰活該倒楣,誰又是真正的倖存者呢?而什麼是好事,什麼才算是壞事呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">是不是很有趣,那你的想法又是什麼呢?歡迎分享喔!</span><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010922348?sloc=main" rel="noopener">《不說話的石頭告訴我們的事》</a></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">El lenguaje secreto de las piedras</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">作者: 維多利亞.培瑞茲.埃斯克里瓦 </p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">原文作者: Victoria Pérez Escrivá</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">譯者: 陳思瑋</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">繪者: 艾絲特.加西亞(Ester García)</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">出版社:奧林 </p></div><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #050505; font-family: Segoe UI Historic, Segoe UI, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></span></div><div><div>謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。</div><div><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">謝謝你願意停留閱讀。如果你也喜歡我的文字,請給我一個鼓勵的愛心,歡迎你追蹤、分享與贊助我的文字書寫!<br /><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">在這裡可以搜尋微微的粉絲專頁:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</a> </p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">點此連結即可線上聽微微說故事:<a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener">微微的原創晚安故事</a> </p><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></div></div></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-57350464677536605902023-08-03T02:15:00.004-07:002023-08-03T07:14:07.836-07:00進入婚姻之後,妳為什麼願意委屈自己<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoel6nmTnS4yGli7MUT16BjfwuxjYLM9APwmx4siuEh6DV5UETFIjJ8UUk74Wmg1mKUfautjpJDT9vgKQmbjI3GwjUlfKFGlLcGKBHmF8TBLiUqJLucv4Gwxf14mwvrWTq1gdoQKDomRjlI4MIjI9Q05_HGQWh4CzYuXQA9hLsjPiNpP-V2Q9zQdzpJek/s4654/pexels-jo%C3%A3o-jesus-808700.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3103" data-original-width="4654" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoel6nmTnS4yGli7MUT16BjfwuxjYLM9APwmx4siuEh6DV5UETFIjJ8UUk74Wmg1mKUfautjpJDT9vgKQmbjI3GwjUlfKFGlLcGKBHmF8TBLiUqJLucv4Gwxf14mwvrWTq1gdoQKDomRjlI4MIjI9Q05_HGQWh4CzYuXQA9hLsjPiNpP-V2Q9zQdzpJek/w640-h426/pexels-jo%C3%A3o-jesus-808700.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">「成為女人之後,妳願意委屈自己嗎」</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">我們終於追完了《</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">金魚妻</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">》。這是改編自黑澤R的同名日劇。故事由一群住在所謂上流社區裡的人們發展的故事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">劇情圍繞著六對夫妻的生活故事,雖然每對夫妻都有著不同的生活、背景、隔閡、暴力、社會框架與責任等等問題。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">不難看出,劇中六名身為妻子之後,所喪失的自我價值、自信心、隱藏所需、被忽視和無法坦誠而延伸背叛等種種問題。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">《</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">金魚妻</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">》不灑狗血,也沒有死去活來。只是平淡地演出這些夫妻的日常,或許他們的故事裡也有某個部份與我們雷同,所以這部日劇才會引起大家的共嗚,甚至有人說好像在看自己的故事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">首先我想先聊聊《金魚妻-第一部》的觀後感,其餘集數有興趣的朋友,可以自己觀賞。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">《</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">金魚妻</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">》用金魚的習性和生活方式來貫穿。在我查閱更多金魚的資料後,我可以理解為何作者以金魚比喻女性雖看似柔弱,卻是抵抗力頑強不輕易放棄生命的魚。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">這不禁讓我想到許多真實的例子,如《</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">台北爸爸紐約媽媽</span><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">》的作者媽媽,還有許多藝人們的媽媽都是在父親欠下巨額債務後消失或跑路。而龐大的債務則由媽媽接手並一肩扛起養育所有的孩子的心酸故事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">你不禁會想,為何都是柔弱的媽媽扛起一整片天,這也是榮格的書裡談及的女性之所以有這樣的特質是與生俱來的。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">應該是說女性本身有這樣的能力,這也是女性當中有男性的特質,而不是靠外在學習的能力。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">有愛的二個人,就像你和我;我們因愛而結合;卻也因愛而失去了重心,更迷失在不安全感裡。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">當中的第一則《金魚妻》故事裡的男主角平賀卓彌和妻子平賀櫻即是,平賀櫻在手受重傷前是個有名氣的美髮師,大家都喜歡他也信任他。連卓彌也曾這樣說過。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">或許因為這樣,原本相愛的二人,在某些突發事件的催化下變質了。在平賀櫻受了嚴重手傷而無法再拿起剪刀工作之後,反而讓一直以來都視平賀櫻為威脅的卓彌鬆了口氣。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">在男性心中,那種很想被照顧的渴望是需要面對和承認脆弱的,意思是不用一直假裝一直都很強的樣子。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">故事裡的卓彌我覺得就是這樣。他無法去接受他內在的陰性特質,於是他不斷靠外內的情欲去尋求,但卻使他越來越盲目,也導致他無法長出能夠照顧自己的能力,或不會被情緒影響。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">他並非瞧不起平賀櫻的,只是他的愛太過單一容不下在愛的同時,還附加了能力。於是選擇用最不好的方式對待平賀櫻,以此增加自己的成就感。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">又因平賀櫻總是逆來順從的性格,反而讓卓彌有了操控感,也證實了他的做法無誤。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">平賀卓彌用暴力、羞辱與束縳來控制妻子,其實內心所隱藏的是那殘破不堪的安全感和自以為是的優越感。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">卓彌的愛讓人窒息。不過當他知道平賀櫻住進金魚店裡時,卻又不敢自己去找回妻子這點來看,是抗拒的,是怕被人看見他的脆羽的。反而讓其業務先去探軍情,深怕有他無法掌握的事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">其實卓彌從劇情的一開始就不斷的運用外遇來消弭自己的所需要的,男性和女性一樣也需要被連結、依附和被照顧的感覺。這些是需要透過自己去尋找的,否則就無法長出</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">或許有一部份是因為不想讓人看見,或是不想在平賀櫻與外人前低頭下氣,所以總是用一些很迂迴的手段去警告。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">平賀櫻在某次被卓彌家暴後,不顧大雨奪門而出,此時遇見了金魚店的老闆豐田春斗,而春斗也收留了她。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">因此在這樣的情愫之下,春斗和平賀櫻發展了清新且有著界線的感情,互相喜愛的二人,讓看劇的人都希望這樣單純質樸生活,能讓適合的二人繼續走下去。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">不過春斗的父親、妹妹、前女友其實是反對的,因為當時平贺櫻尚未解除婚約,各方的壓力下,平贺櫻為了春斗好必須不能成為春斗的負擔,選擇了不告而別,來到了鄉下。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">平贺櫻到了某處鄉村的家庭美髮工作,不料還是被卓彌找到,心灰意冷之下平贺櫻離開了。就在回家的路上,看見尾隨了卓彌,卓彌依然是那副他說了算的態度,也說準備好了離書協議書,並逕自強行擅入平景櫻的住家。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">當然那是藉口,根本沒有什麼協議書,卓彌是要來帶平賀櫻回家的,然而又是一陣暴力毒打;只是平賀櫻的情終究被一再的失望打斷了,內心也鐵了心不想和他離開,於是偷偷錄下這一切自保。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">不過就在彼方的春斗,在反覆看了那張寫有平賀櫻新住處的紙後,也許是愛她衝動,決定要和平賀櫻在一起的春斗,立刻驅車前往。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">見到正對平賀櫻被暴力對待的這一幕,春斗完全無法冷靜更難以平靜的處理,而忍不住對卓彌動手。平賀櫻緊揪著被卓彌撕破的衣服對春斗喊著:「不要」。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">在平賀櫻的制止,終於劃下了二個男人的拉扯,而春斗也順利救出平賀櫻。留下卓彌一人在凌亂的屋子裡若有所思。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">對他來說除了顏面賮失,他更不願相信一直是屬於他的平賀櫻——居然有了想離開他的念頭,平賀櫻怎能將對自己的愛分出去。這對卓彌是不可以、也不可能發生的,於是他崩潰了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">與春斗離開的平賀櫻在誤會冰釋後,二人對於彼此的未來也有了認知和藍圖,而和卓彌的婚約因為有那段家暴影片,讓離婚一事變得簡單。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">只是沒想到卓彌選擇了時間漫長的調解會,這招反而讓平賀櫻與律所出乎意料。「通常會選擇調節會都是另不方根本不想離婚而做的拖延」律師說。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">就在大家準備好要打這場延長賽時,卓彌說出了為什麼會這麼做,會家暴會想控制其實是因為太愛平賀櫻,不過他知道這麼說為時已晚,他並不在意他只是想要利用調解會與平賀櫻碰面,與她面對面說出實話。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">平賀櫻被這段話打動了,這時我想在看劇的人一定很氣憤,甚至擔心平賀櫻會因為心軟而吃回頭草,如此一來的話,春斗該怎麼辧?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">一起看劇的J比我還緊張,嘴上唸著「不可以!不可以!妳不可以心軟,卓彌那麼壞,不要當爛好人,難道妳還要回去被打嗎......。」奇怪,平賀櫻又還沒有回去找卓彌,不要緊張啦。我看著J這樣說。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">其實平賀櫻並沒有全完被卓彌打動,只是對真相感到意外,在我認為對於過往的情,平賀櫻只是保留在心裡的某一處,僅是如此而已。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">平賀櫻在此我們就開始稱她為小櫻好了,讓她回到她自己,而不誰的誰。因為冠夫姓某種程度上是一種對女性的限制。那是一種冷暴力,女性在夫姓的限制下,只能有所取拾。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">小櫻和春斗算是可以光明正大的在一起了,關於未來,他們可以不必再去擔心卓彌的介入和威脅。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">不過在有一天,當小櫻回舊住所要拿東西時,碰巧在社區外遇見了住戶,也曾是卓彌的外遇對象。她告訴小櫻,卓彌早就因付不出房貸搬走,而店面也停業了,卓彌整個人也不再是以前那個意氣風發的卓彌了。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">這席話讓小櫻不得不回頭去關心卓彌和曾經一起經營的美髮店,甚至為了要讓卓彌重振起來,她去借貸,想辦法找回離職的員工,讓美髮店能重新開張。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">小櫻因此和春斗道別分手而離去了。即使春斗明白她的離去正是因為她願意這麼做,就如她無怨無悔去救沒有任何關係的春斗的妺妺而失去手部功能是一樣的。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">我想這或許是春斗傷心,但卻也無法用任何理由去挽留,其實是春斗根本也不想用任何理由牽絆,因為這樣的她,能不顧慮他人而做著自己想做的事,這才是春斗深愛著小櫻。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">小櫻的無私善良,並沒有真的失去什麼;而春斗卻因小櫻的無私獲得了更多。我想也正是為何春斗尊重小櫻離去的理由,甚至真心祝福她,即使知道小櫻很有可能不會回來來。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">看到這裡,我旁邊的J已經看不下去了,氣嘟嘟的,一直說不喜歡小櫻的作法和這個結局。我想這是第一部我們倆有不同想法的日劇了。有人還在氣。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">二年後</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">卓彌變得更有自信,眼神裡的不安緩和很多,開朗也是發自內心的,而原本停業的美髮店又恢復了以往的朝氣。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">絡繹不絕的客人,看來小櫻不論在各方面上都協助卓彌成為更好的那個人。卓彌的笑容也終於展露了前七集中沒有的自信。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">就榮格論裡,男孩在16-45歲會開始走向中年危機,我想卓彌也因為有了小櫻的鼓勵下重新振作,且幸運的是他開始願意「往」內心去探索然後看見自己的能力。——即使沒有小櫻也一樣可以做得很好。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">而小櫻自己雖然手部受傷,功力有一定的落差,她從未此放棄自己的夢想。她為自己圓了從前一直想要擁有的美髮店,取自小櫻名字的櫻字為店名《櫻髮廊》,就此來看也象徵著她靠她自己做到了屬於自己的成功。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">關於春斗呢?他也沒有回到爸爸的公司當富二代,專注於自己喜愛的金魚,也許是興趣,也許另一方面看著金魚也會想起和小櫻的一切。這是春斗用自己的方式守護他和小櫻之間。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">一年一度的花火節又到了,春斗和小櫻未曾忘懷當初的約定,每逢節日,他們一定用曾在一起慶況的方式,各自在屬於自己的空間裡慶祝,也為對方保留一個位置。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">小櫻和春斗最終沒有在一起,我個人不覺得是個爛結局。我反而是喜歡這樣的結局的。雖然我旁邊的J完全無法接受,還一直說,有各自的想法或開店,根本不影響他們在一起......。哈</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">在一起之後問題或許才會顯露出來,因為小櫻是個有夢想的人,如果和春斗在一起,是否會因她的個性有所放棄來成全呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">而春斗會不會因為懷著對小櫻的有所歉疚,在這段感情之中失去平衡和自我呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">這是春斗的小櫻都未曾想過的未來,她們能夠在雨中相遇相惜是因為卓彌的家暴,這算不算患難見真情呢?雖說春斗早就知道小櫻的過去。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">在患難見真情的基礎下而發展的感情,其實能不能長久,我覺得是個值得探討的問題,因為當事件的火花激情結束後,隨之而來的是現實還有因此改變的觀值觀。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">當人回到現實後,對於在患難見真情下遇見的那個人,是心目中那位期盼已久的對的人嗎?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">能夠清楚的把感謝之情和愛情分得清楚嗎?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">記得311大地震那時期爆發了結婚潮,大多死裡逃生的人因311價值觀變了,認為人生苦短要好好把握身邊的人,於是結婚的人變多了。但幾年後因為311而結婚的人卻開始因為了解而離婚。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">有的離婚的二人為此還大肆慶祝一番,弄得像結婚似的。他們認為能脫離苦海,恢復單身而感到幸福,也終於找到自己和未來的方向而慶幸著。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">哎喲,又扯遠了。拉回來!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;">總之,我覺得這樣的結局是不錯的。愛,不一定要結婚住在一起才是真愛。如能真心為彼此祝福並給予自由,不限制愛一定要怎麼做,那麼才是真正的愛。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /></p><p><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5b22940VAIJIEY_RwVr3LX-xPg6bQsA-VROVJILJYciO3Kc_xLTmSm-iO0Jw0wcqQAXYxnj5TB85DCgxT0DTyplxJ_5oSVvroaPFA8POVvBr1C_rdTWhvIWeDXa1D7OUa8_1TBN9_tsKMJVxZydmcYaVkv3iNwbnfaPbyv60gokA_L1X4G212HMo-1s0/s960/348286658_6404113969608633_5789624006877102120_n.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="663" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5b22940VAIJIEY_RwVr3LX-xPg6bQsA-VROVJILJYciO3Kc_xLTmSm-iO0Jw0wcqQAXYxnj5TB85DCgxT0DTyplxJ_5oSVvroaPFA8POVvBr1C_rdTWhvIWeDXa1D7OUa8_1TBN9_tsKMJVxZydmcYaVkv3iNwbnfaPbyv60gokA_L1X4G212HMo-1s0/w442-h640/348286658_6404113969608633_5789624006877102120_n.jpg" width="442" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">《金魚妻》(日語:金魚妻)是<b>由日本漫畫家黑澤R創作的漫畫</b>。 至2022年5月,包括紙本與電子版在內,總銷售量已突破325萬本。 改編真人電視劇在2022年2月14日於Netflix上架,篠原涼子主演。</p><p class="lexical__paragraph"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">Photo by Pexels<br /><br /></p><h3 class="lexical__h3" dir="ltr"><br /></h3><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</a> 微微的粉絲專頁</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener">微微的原創晚安故事</a> 點此連結即可線上聽故事喔!</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /></p><p><span face=""Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-size: 14px;"><br /></span></p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-69525716326729919222023-08-03T01:50:00.003-07:002023-08-03T01:50:21.720-07:00也許我們從來不知道,我們不斷追尋的真理和美好,其實或許不存在。就像有些事情是沒有解答的,可是我們卻不斷地想要往更深的地方挖掘<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-g-CW5_ntljGFbAAz23jlWvh0DtIzNC3sUOnrnmS9FsbzSxJceMTOjHwb9r8mzQaf42YivfkKN2hTh3q-YLRTWjtwbaaHZIMz8_p4fmU2tQDDuXks0PTwq7HlN_V5fZFuA2CWHKQFUrzWTFoydL86jHmxBLfTYujpWHFi5CHuYAdYsha31qrxyR6oq1E/s5472/pexels-kasuma-426893.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3648" data-original-width="5472" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-g-CW5_ntljGFbAAz23jlWvh0DtIzNC3sUOnrnmS9FsbzSxJceMTOjHwb9r8mzQaf42YivfkKN2hTh3q-YLRTWjtwbaaHZIMz8_p4fmU2tQDDuXks0PTwq7HlN_V5fZFuA2CWHKQFUrzWTFoydL86jHmxBLfTYujpWHFi5CHuYAdYsha31qrxyR6oq1E/w640-h426/pexels-kasuma-426893.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p>「幸福到底如何定義?」<br />《<span class="xv78j7m" spellcheck="false">#小鳥小哲學</span>》<br /> <br />這本書真的很好看!我喜歡看的書其實沒有設限,因為我很喜歡在不刻意的條件下與「那本書」相遇。<br /> <br />也許我們從來不知道,我們不斷追尋的真理和美好,其實或許不存在。就像有些事情是沒有解答的,可是我們卻不斷地想要往更深的地方挖掘,然而在這樣的過程中,我們會刻意安撫自己以使得能繼續前進。<br /> <br />「一切都會好的。」以前我常常這樣幫自己打氣。但哪有人在未知的一開始的時候,就拼命地將蜜糖當誘餌給自己吃?讓人誤以為繼續前進一定會有好事發生,其實結果不一定如蜜糖般甜。<br /> <br />每個人都想要一直都過得幸福快樂,但那是不可能的,只是我們很難去接受在過程中也會遭遇不順遂,所以想要改變,或是至少讓未來可以少走一點冤枉路。<br /> <br />我不知道這樣的超前部署對所有事而言,到底是好還是不好?<br /> <br />我想「超前」並不適用於每一件事情,是因為在超前的路上或是途中,或許有著原本屬於我們的「獲得」,但因為超前而刻意被我們繞過了。<br /> <br />這是我這幾個月以來不斷思索的問題,我知道現在的我和以前確實不太一樣了,不是變好啦,而是可以比較專注在痛苦的感受和自己的感受裡。<br /> <br />生命有時就是這樣奇妙,當我又開始能寫能讀時,在一個偶然的機會我遇見了《小鳥小哲學》這本書,而隨機翻閱的那一頁便是「必須懂得讓內在的一部份消亡,好重獲新生。」讓我熱淚盈眶且敲擊我內心的一段話。<br /> <br />是這樣的沒錯,也許我們在講求效率的數位時代裡,被隱沒在外在的資訊和種種流行趨勢裡,然而我們似乎都沒有發現。<br /> <br />「必須懂得讓內在的一部份消亡,好重獲新生。」——是鳥一生當中很重要的過程。<br /> <br />換羽是鳥類用損耗的羽毛換得更漂亮的羽衣,而這是很重要的事,即使必須經歷一段艱難的時期,但是如果沒有完好的羽毛,牠們將無法飛翔。<br /> <br />大自然裡有很多值得我們學習的地方,鳥類的一生也和我們有些相同。<br /> <br />當生命中重大的時刻來臨時,我們總是會視為阻礙,很少會有「這是歷練」的想法而感謝,畢竟不幸太令人心碎,想逃開都來不及了,感謝怎說得出口。<br /> <br />《小鳥小哲學》並不是要告訴你對生命中的不幸充滿感謝,而是覺察內在的脆弱,暫時擱置重要的事,耐心等待重拾力量。<br /> <br />這也是我這些年來持續練習的事(當然我也必須很誠實地說這不是個很容易的練習),所以當我遇見《小鳥小哲學》時非常有共鳴。<br /> <br />好好地大哭、好好地傷心、好好地生氣、好好地感受,好好地陪伴自己是重要的練習,也許我們應該要這麼做,在不強迫自己的前提下。<br /> <br />讓我們允許自己在生命中重大和微小時刻換新羽毛,經歷蝕羽。然後,我們復出時,將變得更堅強、更美麗,和鳥一樣自在。——《小鳥小哲學》。</p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTBuWUqmeXz0t77oCZL0k56zJ4MKB89bRrvk3Bf5-d6cpsk1JBKD_xy1k59Ptcgk3kccvjPO1yDpyyyAW3xuBOXEUoNm951HhaTcBaj7I4MIStOvrtIWPvbDkiFW1J9Jm4i9tCwtCUMxXCIvR2S1V4MAFcT7nfivv4zMfKzu6f5TrQrGZaKRrHvXtzhm4/s960/343475132_238679375501606_8696974118576778339_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="503" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTBuWUqmeXz0t77oCZL0k56zJ4MKB89bRrvk3Bf5-d6cpsk1JBKD_xy1k59Ptcgk3kccvjPO1yDpyyyAW3xuBOXEUoNm951HhaTcBaj7I4MIStOvrtIWPvbDkiFW1J9Jm4i9tCwtCUMxXCIvR2S1V4MAFcT7nfivv4zMfKzu6f5TrQrGZaKRrHvXtzhm4/w336-h640/343475132_238679375501606_8696974118576778339_n.jpg" width="336" /></a></div><br /><p><br /> <br /><a href="https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010942648?sloc=main">《小鳥小哲學》</a><br />作者:Philippe J. Dubois / E’lise Rousseau<br />啟明出版社</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</a> 微微的粉絲專頁</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener">微微的原創晚安故事</a> 點此連結即可線上聽故事喔!</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8940174215217202502.post-53888756797052036892023-08-03T01:29:00.005-07:002023-08-03T01:29:48.389-07:00我們存在同一個世界,卻過著不一樣的生活,未必是悲痛或是刻骨銘心,但總有那麼一段是每個人都會重疊的經歷,會對照出彼此的內心。<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizENvQHmBLwmmm0cQQJCa-uScQCeM42sbzLO8TN1zeStwOO1rrUyMZkWxNp4S3jhms-zPFHJQo9VXcSxWM03zcf8mBz9pkkCl2Dc5uzdmocErRkEGiJV-hgNu-1BBL_2IuHtVmqVbv7iOkBH2_aBo5Hx4OhW7ZMjDTUsGRVm8UgGL3ZulgSOFfcUoeD_Y/s6000/pexels-steven-arenas-362948.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="6000" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizENvQHmBLwmmm0cQQJCa-uScQCeM42sbzLO8TN1zeStwOO1rrUyMZkWxNp4S3jhms-zPFHJQo9VXcSxWM03zcf8mBz9pkkCl2Dc5uzdmocErRkEGiJV-hgNu-1BBL_2IuHtVmqVbv7iOkBH2_aBo5Hx4OhW7ZMjDTUsGRVm8UgGL3ZulgSOFfcUoeD_Y/w640-h426/pexels-steven-arenas-362948.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p><br /></p><p><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">每一天我們都和「那些」不斷擦身而過,具體來說並不是什麼驚心動魄的事,而是很細微的感受,細微到我們可能未曾察覺,或是刻意無視。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">不過,經常是生活讓我們無力再去感受更多,畢竟生活已讓人覺得不容易,能獲得一眨眼時間的休息或平靜實屬難得。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我們存在同一個世界,卻過著不一樣的生活,未必是悲痛或是刻骨銘心,但總有那麼一段是每個人都會重疊的經歷,會對照出彼此的內心。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">在圖書館裡,在那排文學類別的書架上,在手指落下的那本書上,在《離別的聲音》這本書名上思索著,離別時會聽見或發現什麼未曾察覺到的細節嗎?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">而此書的翻譯者恰巧是我一直很喜歡的</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">王蘊潔</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">,所以還有不帶回家的理由嗎?於是共同的緣份就此展開。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">《離別的聲音》於2011年出版發行</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">是作者</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">青山七惠</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"> 對於生活裡的細膩之聲,初見書名之時會以為是本愛情小說,但閱讀後會發現其實是更貼近你我生活的故事。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">沒有激情也不用眼淚交織動人,就這樣淡淡的,輕輕的,彷彿身邊親近的友人對你訴說著日常般那樣平易近人。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">沒想到僅只是淡淡的訴說,也在我的心裡發酵,細細回想那些似曾相識的經驗,也許不會是生命中最珍貴的回憶,但卻叫人無法忘懷。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">偶爾因憶起的點滴似乎也能牽動著身邊的一切,是不是其實那些我們未曾放在心上、與我們擦身而過的,也與我們的人生記憶裡有著共同的體驗?</span></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFba4U2xjBMzh9GMX8gAh6Na9ETO8RVWuFnXFcJ0MUULvgo6TdY9PKyMiBHjuWMT0-uNKGODx8Pd5vACNi24mNebq7qP8qTBVTwmR-_PW6si0Bwb-2RYpsQ1u3DTaA-fBuYaR-YP-Rv_CzyScwItMqsxXeDX0Yf8fHm-unEA0lGMQRYH6o8F_67WhtaRM/s6000/pexels-elijah-o'donnell-3041350.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="4000" data-original-width="6000" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFba4U2xjBMzh9GMX8gAh6Na9ETO8RVWuFnXFcJ0MUULvgo6TdY9PKyMiBHjuWMT0-uNKGODx8Pd5vACNi24mNebq7qP8qTBVTwmR-_PW6si0Bwb-2RYpsQ1u3DTaA-fBuYaR-YP-Rv_CzyScwItMqsxXeDX0Yf8fHm-unEA0lGMQRYH6o8F_67WhtaRM/w640-h426/pexels-elijah-o'donnell-3041350.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><p><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">《離別的聲音》很耐人尋味的小說故事,六個小短篇故事看似平淡,不會讓情緒因劇情起伏,卻讓我重新檢視許多過往,也再次拉回了那些擦身而過的感受。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我喜歡其中《我女兒》的短篇故事,描述一位在食堂工作的媽媽,因常來食堂的一位年輕女學生而產生了一種想特別對她好的情感。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">並非積極地想要為女學生做些什麼,而是靜靜的,默默的在她每次都點同一種烏龍麵裡多加了些剛剛好、不會被她發現的食材,以此為這份特殊緣份拉近某種無法定義的距離的善意。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">食堂媽媽每天都會在心裡期盼這位女學生的到來,然後在時而刻意、時而不經意的觀察裡,發現自己似乎不知不覺地讓女學生成了自己心裡也曾有的念想——如果我也有女兒的話......。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">看完這則故事時,不知道你是否也有類似的回憶,在某時某刻的某一處,你也剛好遇見了讓你想靠近且無法忘懷的人事物?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">即使那些浮光掠影可能非常短暫的出現過,但就是能被你輕易憶起呢?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">《離別的聲音》</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">說的就是這樣的故事,很特別。我想那聲音來自於記憶。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">因閱讀此書進而認識作者—青山七惠,曾獲</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">芥川獎</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">,同時也是最年輕得獎女性,從她簡介裡又認識了多本她的作品。</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;">我想《一個人的好天氣》也會寫進我的閱讀清單裡。</span></p><p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhixaP0LPfxDJGvuo8CVjN5hCqlLdLTC8whJEHsjTna6Tx9aDRxvfKRn-jENVVHQsfYfaUiByiS9KtmJaKgbm9wm1IbN5ZKLYi8xFc_qbQoG67d4UpkaKhKx8pXTUfkpbr7z10RHQp1VXaw-fpd0Y7RQ_K_adO6KZ6_BXPqZtKtJiifekeFcQYreEcKGmw/s1072/275981729_353622186778190_5878109771161569068_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1072" data-original-width="858" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhixaP0LPfxDJGvuo8CVjN5hCqlLdLTC8whJEHsjTna6Tx9aDRxvfKRn-jENVVHQsfYfaUiByiS9KtmJaKgbm9wm1IbN5ZKLYi8xFc_qbQoG67d4UpkaKhKx8pXTUfkpbr7z10RHQp1VXaw-fpd0Y7RQ_K_adO6KZ6_BXPqZtKtJiifekeFcQYreEcKGmw/w512-h640/275981729_353622186778190_5878109771161569068_n.jpg" width="512" /></a></div><br /><p><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #050505; font-family: "Segoe UI Historic", "Segoe UI", Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;" /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.books.com.tw/products/0010512798?sloc=main" rel="noopener">《離別的聲音》</a></p><ul class="lexical__ul"><li class="lexical__listItem" value="1">作者: 青山七惠 </li><li class="lexical__listItem" value="2">譯者: 王蘊潔</li><li class="lexical__listItem" value="3">出版社:時報出版</li></ul><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /><br />謝謝陪伴我們的那些故事。即使長大了,也不要忘了我們仍然是個孩子。</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><br /></p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr">Photo by Steven Arenas / Elijah O' Donnell<br /><br /></p><h2 class="lexical__h2"><br /></h2><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/vivienne3051" rel="noopener">棉花糖的晴天暖綿綿</a> 微微的粉絲專頁</p><p class="lexical__paragraph" dir="ltr"><a href="https://reurl.cc/VLvDQR" rel="noopener">微微的原創晚安故事</a> 點此連結即可線上聽故事喔!</p>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0